Gabriel Mizrahi

Then, this past weekend, Chelsea told me that she was talking to her friends about how she basically has no one to help her with the shower, and that her friends thought it was ridiculous that we weren't helping. She told you that? That's a move. I was shocked. I reminded her that I had asked a bunch of times, including just a few days before she talked to her friends, and she declined.

I also told her again that I would love to plan the shower. Then she started talking about how my mom hasn't asked her either and how her own mom is terrible at throwing parties. I explained that it was my fault my mom hadn't asked because I assumed she didn't want my mom helping either. She deflected at that point and said she just didn't know what she wanted when I had asked her.

I also told her again that I would love to plan the shower. Then she started talking about how my mom hasn't asked her either and how her own mom is terrible at throwing parties. I explained that it was my fault my mom hadn't asked because I assumed she didn't want my mom helping either. She deflected at that point and said she just didn't know what she wanted when I had asked her.

I also told her again that I would love to plan the shower. Then she started talking about how my mom hasn't asked her either and how her own mom is terrible at throwing parties. I explained that it was my fault my mom hadn't asked because I assumed she didn't want my mom helping either. She deflected at that point and said she just didn't know what she wanted when I had asked her.

One of her friends is an amazing party planner, and I would definitely pick her over me to do this, although this friend lives six hours away and has a new baby herself. I wanted to be involved because I love my sister-in-law and my brother, and I'm over the moon about the new baby. But it doesn't hurt my feelings if she'd rather have her friends throw the shower.

One of her friends is an amazing party planner, and I would definitely pick her over me to do this, although this friend lives six hours away and has a new baby herself. I wanted to be involved because I love my sister-in-law and my brother, and I'm over the moon about the new baby. But it doesn't hurt my feelings if she'd rather have her friends throw the shower.

One of her friends is an amazing party planner, and I would definitely pick her over me to do this, although this friend lives six hours away and has a new baby herself. I wanted to be involved because I love my sister-in-law and my brother, and I'm over the moon about the new baby. But it doesn't hurt my feelings if she'd rather have her friends throw the shower.

What bothers me is how she's created this story about being kind of a victim in all of this. That we're uncaring in-laws, and her mother won't help her, and she's telling this to people I know.

What bothers me is how she's created this story about being kind of a victim in all of this. That we're uncaring in-laws, and her mother won't help her, and she's telling this to people I know.

What bothers me is how she's created this story about being kind of a victim in all of this. That we're uncaring in-laws, and her mother won't help her, and she's telling this to people I know.

This isn't the first time Chelsea has done something toxic.

This isn't the first time Chelsea has done something toxic.

This isn't the first time Chelsea has done something toxic.

She planned her destination wedding right on top of my wedding. That's a move.

She planned her destination wedding right on top of my wedding. That's a move.

She planned her destination wedding right on top of my wedding. That's a move.

And invited my husband's ex to do her hair for it, despite not knowing this woman well or being a client of hers, when our cousin is a professional hairstylist and was willing to do it for free.

And invited my husband's ex to do her hair for it, despite not knowing this woman well or being a client of hers, when our cousin is a professional hairstylist and was willing to do it for free.

And invited my husband's ex to do her hair for it, despite not knowing this woman well or being a client of hers, when our cousin is a professional hairstylist and was willing to do it for free.

Yeah, that's a problem, right? That's almost cartoonishly rude. Yeah, that means like I'm going to plan my wedding so that people have to choose between us and only go to one.