Gabriel Mizrahi
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Then several days ago, my wife was going through my phone and discovered a text message in which I had complained to a friend about some major financial issues that involved my wife.
And while I had already discussed those with her, I was talking to said friend to get advice.
My wife did not have a specific reason to go through my phone.
I was half asleep when it happened, but became alert when she started questioning me.
And the conversation changed to things like how could I, quote, betray her trust by going behind her back, unquote, which then turned into a conversation about do you even love me anymore?
After a few more questions, I realized that the cat was out of the bag, and there was no point in trying to pretend that I wasn't done with our marriage.
So I admitted as much and told her of my intent to divorce.
She said she wanted to do a trial separation first where we acted like roommates for a while.
I was scared to disagree, so I went along with the idea, as I had not filed at that point and I slept on the couch after texting my mom and my friend.
yeah i think it is too also fascinating that she keeps picking fights and provoking him almost in a way to bring these things to a head it makes me wonder if she also wanted it to go there in some way we'll get back to that i guess that day i came home from work and went to the garage to unload the car when i saw a ring notification from an emt at our door i walked over to our unit and the emts told me that someone had called in a wellness check on my unit
So I let them in and learned that my wife had attempted to commit suicide by taking too many prescription pills.
It could have been a friend or a family member, but if it were, I feel like that person would have called our friend here.
So it has to be.
I was overwhelmed and didn't say anything as they took her away.
I was conflicted about wanting to help her as I always have, packing an overnight bag, her personal items, stuff like that.
But I understood that I was going down the path of divorce and wanted to distance myself from her as well.
She went to the emergency room, then the ICU, and is now possibly in the psychiatric ward of the hospital.
During that time, she called me excessively, 53 calls in a 24-hour period, and left 10 voicemails and countless text messages.
During that time, she also called my mom, several of my cousins, my co-worker at work, and my friend.
She left many long messages that were very emotional and delusional,