Gabriel Mizrahi

And the landlord might help her with access if she just asks.

Since she moved out and was discharged from the hospital, none of her friends and family have contacted me.

No one's contacted me to yell at me or call me mean names and tell me how terrible I am.

But at the same time, no one's trying to be my friend either.

Yeah, I think we just got a little glimpse into some of his big fears there about being judged.

Signed, an exhausted cop wondering whether to talk after he finally hopped.

It is so heartbreaking, but I see where you're going with this.

Qualifier complete.

No, I don't either.

In fact, that might have been inadvertently what she wanted or maybe not so inadvertently.

I don't know, especially given that she probably called the police herself or at least this was what she was creating, right?

A situation where this suicide attempt would force people to pay attention to her in a different way and where she might be brought to a point where she would have to deal with the stuff in a more urgent way unless it was all just a cry for help and there was no plan.

Or maybe she realizes that she really is on her own now and she needs to step up for herself.

Which clearly was not working at all.

yes and no right he still feels connected to her they were married the separation is still very fresh i get the sense that he feels very obligated to her and maybe to other people it might be part of his deep interest in psychology and what he's brought to his job as a cop and therefore he probably feels guilty for quote-unquote abandoning her when she was in serious trouble

not stepping in like you said Jordan not saving her in this extreme moment where she was almost about to die not supporting her even being in touch anymore that is such a different way of operating with this person who has dominated his life it just must bring up a lot of anxiety for him am I failing her am I okay if I don't save her am I a bad guy

that very sense of responsibility, that is his part of this, right?

They fell into a kind of codependency and a kind of collusion to keep her safe.

And I'm sure that's what he is now starting to look at, but it comes with some difficult feelings for sure.

You do not want to chip away at that.