Gary Direnfeld

Boy, have you labeled me.

This is great.

But seriously, sometimes the issue with intimacy isn't the intimacy, it's the hygiene.

And you may have a partner for whom you have some concern about their hygiene.

Tell them.

Tell them.

Or have an intimate shower.

Have an intimate bath.

I still remember when I was a kid, I had a wealthy friend in school and we were playing at their house.

I was probably in my teens.

We weren't playing.

We were hanging out and we went to the parents' bedroom.

They had two shower heads.

We made fun of the friend.

It wasn't very nice.

But yeah, a shower can be fun, a bath, anything.

Gary, we got to leave it at that.

Those are some strategies, both holistic, mental health related for dealing with

a valentine's day in your life that doesn't necessarily fit the perfect script but also some sexy ones because it's gary after dark gary dierenfeld is a social worker and a therapist and i guess the four tips are do it before the rich dinner take the pressure off like don't make the goal to have the perfect sexual encounter just a regular encounter another one communicate use your words and then the last one i really like gary is hygiene gary thanks for being here

Thank you, David.