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Gary Vee

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339 total appearances

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Podcast Appearances

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

Back to like the 6th to 10th grade of like I like girls but I'm scared to ask them out because I don't want rejection. I also didn't conform to peer pressure ever. And that was because I just couldn't hear anybody else's voice. I couldn't hear anybody else's voice but my own.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

You know where it comes from? Also balancing it with empathy. Let me give you my perspective on when I read something that says, well, you're a crackhead, Gary. Or you're a charlatan. Or you're lucky. Or your daddy gave it to you. When they don't know the story of what I actually did at Wine Library. All those things penetrate first level hurt. You know, nobody wants to hear it.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

You know where it comes from? Also balancing it with empathy. Let me give you my perspective on when I read something that says, well, you're a crackhead, Gary. Or you're a charlatan. Or you're lucky. Or your daddy gave it to you. When they don't know the story of what I actually did at Wine Library. All those things penetrate first level hurt. You know, nobody wants to hear it.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

You know where it comes from? Also balancing it with empathy. Let me give you my perspective on when I read something that says, well, you're a crackhead, Gary. Or you're a charlatan. Or you're lucky. Or your daddy gave it to you. When they don't know the story of what I actually did at Wine Library. All those things penetrate first level hurt. You know, nobody wants to hear it.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

But immediately my place doesn't go into I'm confident, fuck you. My place goes to, man. God, thank you God for not letting me live a life where I would actually take the time to spend and consume somebody's content. I don't even consume anybody's content to begin with, let alone consume with the interest to tear that person down.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

But immediately my place doesn't go into I'm confident, fuck you. My place goes to, man. God, thank you God for not letting me live a life where I would actually take the time to spend and consume somebody's content. I don't even consume anybody's content to begin with, let alone consume with the interest to tear that person down.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

But immediately my place doesn't go into I'm confident, fuck you. My place goes to, man. God, thank you God for not letting me live a life where I would actually take the time to spend and consume somebody's content. I don't even consume anybody's content to begin with, let alone consume with the interest to tear that person down.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

You have to be so unhappy inside to wanna manifest tearing somebody else down. And I, listen, I don't like talking about this, but this is your first episode and I want to give you something. Thank you.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

You have to be so unhappy inside to wanna manifest tearing somebody else down. And I, listen, I don't like talking about this, but this is your first episode and I want to give you something. Thank you.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

You have to be so unhappy inside to wanna manifest tearing somebody else down. And I, listen, I don't like talking about this, but this is your first episode and I want to give you something. Thank you.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

You know, she has dementia now, she's been in essence gone for five to seven years, but she's been gone to me for 25 years because she was the singular most negative person I'd ever come across in my life. And the reason I checked out from her at 16, 17, 18, whenever I did, was because she spent 100% of her time tearing down other people. My father, My mother. It's your father's mother. Yes.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

You know, she has dementia now, she's been in essence gone for five to seven years, but she's been gone to me for 25 years because she was the singular most negative person I'd ever come across in my life. And the reason I checked out from her at 16, 17, 18, whenever I did, was because she spent 100% of her time tearing down other people. My father, My mother. It's your father's mother. Yes.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

You know, she has dementia now, she's been in essence gone for five to seven years, but she's been gone to me for 25 years because she was the singular most negative person I'd ever come across in my life. And the reason I checked out from her at 16, 17, 18, whenever I did, was because she spent 100% of her time tearing down other people. My father, My mother. It's your father's mother. Yes.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

My aunt. My sister. She tried to do it to me but I was like so in a... Like, you know, she gave up on tearing me down, I think, at some level because she could sense that I didn't give a fuck. You know, but nonetheless... I'm disproportionately optimistic and positive, but I live, my grandma spent her whole summer with us, every summer.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

My aunt. My sister. She tried to do it to me but I was like so in a... Like, you know, she gave up on tearing me down, I think, at some level because she could sense that I didn't give a fuck. You know, but nonetheless... I'm disproportionately optimistic and positive, but I live, my grandma spent her whole summer with us, every summer.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

My aunt. My sister. She tried to do it to me but I was like so in a... Like, you know, she gave up on tearing me down, I think, at some level because she could sense that I didn't give a fuck. You know, but nonetheless... I'm disproportionately optimistic and positive, but I live, my grandma spent her whole summer with us, every summer.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

She did it. Do you understand? It sucks. What people don't know is everything about me because I don't share everything like I just shared with you. The reality is I've seen it up close and personal. I know the extreme positivity. I know extreme negativity.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

She did it. Do you understand? It sucks. What people don't know is everything about me because I don't share everything like I just shared with you. The reality is I've seen it up close and personal. I know the extreme positivity. I know extreme negativity.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

She did it. Do you understand? It sucks. What people don't know is everything about me because I don't share everything like I just shared with you. The reality is I've seen it up close and personal. I know the extreme positivity. I know extreme negativity.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
The Secret to Feeling Confident Walking Into Any Room with Gary Vee

Not only was she a disproportionately negative person, she lived her adult life until she was my age right now, 43, before she moved to America and lived in Soviet Russia. She was a widow with a 15 year old. She had shit. She had a tough life. She was a child in World War II. I don't judge her. But I also understand what it is.