George Kamel

And that's where a lot of bankruptcy cases are born.

Yeah.

When's the wedding?

Have you guys set a date?

So your uneasiness about paying for this is more about is this the career that she really wants?

It's not about anything else, correct?

What makes you think that this could be something that she's just got in her mind right now but will change her mind down the line?

Has she shown that to be part of a personality characteristic?

I'd also look at, I mean, you guys have not quite a year, but if you're planning on getting married in January, in the meantime, she can do some programs out there that will allow her to shadow that career and really get in that environment and see, can I stomach it?

Do I like it?

And get a sense of what it feels like, get a sense of the hours and really do her due diligence before you were to shell that money out.

And this is the perfect time to do that while she continues to work and save up.

Yeah, she could do a nursing shadowing program.

She could volunteer at a hospital for a while.

She could maybe start as a CNA and do that first and not shell out the $40,000 right away.

There's a lot of things that she could do to kind of get her feet wet without spending a ton, ton of money.

Yeah, I think we've given you some good solutions.

And even for her to suss out the nursing program, my bigger thing is you need to talk about your viewpoints and philosophies around money.

And like George said, we'll hook you up with the stuff, but you need to sit down one night and say, okay, here's the thing.

I'm a guy.