Gilbert Cruz

And as I read through many of the questions, I saw that something that a lot of people had on their minds is how to dress for their age.

People in their 60s, 70s, people in their 80s, but also listeners that were much younger than that.

And this first one is from Paul.

He lives in Rostock, Germany.

Paul asks, I've been trying to find a more modern adult style for a while now since I'm still wearing a similar style to the one I've been wearing since high school.

I believe Paul is in his late 20s.

Why is that and how can I change that?

fairly frequently as we age and that's why you're getting questions from people in their 80s 70s 60s and lower is that like we're always trying to navigate this problem well i think a lot of people don't want to again dress like they're trying to be 25 when they're in their 40s or they don't want to try too hard to look cool even though they want to feel good in their clothing

Stella, I went to a Catholic all boys high school and I still dress that way.

I think I locked it in when I was 16 years old.

That would be my guidance.

That is very actionable advice.

That's good.

Thank you.

I feel like this is related to our next question, which is from Laura in Menlo Park, California.

Laura writes that after giving birth to her son, none of her clothes felt appropriate to wear anymore.

And again, touching on this theme we've been talking about, the clothes that she accumulated in her 20s no longer matched her sense of self.

She's a different person now inherently as a new parent.

So she asks, quote, how do you suggest navigating this early motherhood era with regard to personal style?

And how do you do so without going broke?