Glennon Doyle

Like when we were in the obsessive, just obliteration of early love and you saying, this is going to end. And I said to you, I feel like you're saying we're not going to love each other as much. And you said, I'm telling you, we're going to have to love each other more because the drug of it is gone. And then you land. It's like the falling in love.

Like when we were in the obsessive, just obliteration of early love and you saying, this is going to end. And I said to you, I feel like you're saying we're not going to love each other as much. And you said, I'm telling you, we're going to have to love each other more because the drug of it is gone. And then you land. It's like the falling in love.

Like when we were in the obsessive, just obliteration of early love and you saying, this is going to end. And I said to you, I feel like you're saying we're not going to love each other as much. And you said, I'm telling you, we're going to have to love each other more because the drug of it is gone. And then you land. It's like the falling in love.

And then you land and you're like two people again. And you're like, what? Yeah. We're just two people. Yeah. You know? Yeah. So I think that's intimacy. The falling in love is not intimacy. That can happen to any fool, right? The fool in love. That's just something that happens to you, but then you have to happen to each other, which I think that's intimacy. It's like, it's not a we thing.

And then you land and you're like two people again. And you're like, what? Yeah. We're just two people. Yeah. You know? Yeah. So I think that's intimacy. The falling in love is not intimacy. That can happen to any fool, right? The fool in love. That's just something that happens to you, but then you have to happen to each other, which I think that's intimacy. It's like, it's not a we thing.

And then you land and you're like two people again. And you're like, what? Yeah. We're just two people. Yeah. You know? Yeah. So I think that's intimacy. The falling in love is not intimacy. That can happen to any fool, right? The fool in love. That's just something that happens to you, but then you have to happen to each other, which I think that's intimacy. It's like, it's not a we thing.

It's like, here I am. And you're like, here I am. And then the more intimate you can be with yourself, I think it's our therapy. It's our work we do individually that makes us able to connect deeply as people. Two people.

It's like, here I am. And you're like, here I am. And then the more intimate you can be with yourself, I think it's our therapy. It's our work we do individually that makes us able to connect deeply as people. Two people.

It's like, here I am. And you're like, here I am. And then the more intimate you can be with yourself, I think it's our therapy. It's our work we do individually that makes us able to connect deeply as people. Two people.

Remember, we used to walk around and be like, look at all these normal people and that have it forever.

Remember, we used to walk around and be like, look at all these normal people and that have it forever.

Remember, we used to walk around and be like, look at all these normal people and that have it forever.

And I think you know it's right because of how you feel. Like it's not even when sometimes, you know, that moment of there she is looking at Abby. Like for so long I thought that was about Abby. But I think that there she is was internal. Like I loved who I was in that moment. Like she brought something out of me, but I was in my body. I was weird. I was arms open. I'm like not making sense. I'm –

And I think you know it's right because of how you feel. Like it's not even when sometimes, you know, that moment of there she is looking at Abby. Like for so long I thought that was about Abby. But I think that there she is was internal. Like I loved who I was in that moment. Like she brought something out of me, but I was in my body. I was weird. I was arms open. I'm like not making sense. I'm –

And I think you know it's right because of how you feel. Like it's not even when sometimes, you know, that moment of there she is looking at Abby. Like for so long I thought that was about Abby. But I think that there she is was internal. Like I loved who I was in that moment. Like she brought something out of me, but I was in my body. I was weird. I was arms open. I'm like not making sense. I'm –

I like who I am with Abby. I sometimes feel like the way that you know if a person's compatible for you is how you feel about you when you're with that person. It's not necessarily that person because so much of love, the way we've been taught, especially for women, is like we have to disappear or get small or mirror or become whatever that person wants us to be so we don't even know who we are.

I like who I am with Abby. I sometimes feel like the way that you know if a person's compatible for you is how you feel about you when you're with that person. It's not necessarily that person because so much of love, the way we've been taught, especially for women, is like we have to disappear or get small or mirror or become whatever that person wants us to be so we don't even know who we are.

I like who I am with Abby. I sometimes feel like the way that you know if a person's compatible for you is how you feel about you when you're with that person. It's not necessarily that person because so much of love, the way we've been taught, especially for women, is like we have to disappear or get small or mirror or become whatever that person wants us to be so we don't even know who we are.

So like there's a version of love that doesn't make you disappear but makes you expand. Up here. Up here.

So like there's a version of love that doesn't make you disappear but makes you expand. Up here. Up here.