Glennon Doyle

And the two older ones were always able to like, so I would say, you guys, we're going to leave in 15 minutes.

Be in the foyer in 15 minutes.

And 15 minutes later, the three would show up and the two were ready and they had clothes on.

And then the third was just, God, just like a pizza box on her head and like two different shoes and like a mustache painted on her thing and no pants and just, you know, the whole thing.

But it would be too late.

So I would always just say, look at them, be like, okay, you two are good.

And you just, you're going to, honey, you're just going to have to go like that.

Okay.

And I just feel like God is like that with me.

Like God looks at my friends and he's like, okay, you're good.

You're good.

And then looks at me and he's like, honey, you're just going to have to go like that.

Right?

And that's okay.

Like if we just wait till we're different to show up, I've been waiting to be different since I was five.

Like, I don't think it's going to happen next Tuesday.

I think this is just, there's many of us who are supposed to show up without tidiness and a bunch of different answers.

And I feel like maybe it's even more important in this moment because

If the only people who are showing up are the people who have their shit together and who are not deeply affected, that's dangerous.

Think about that.