Glennon Doyle

Well, first I went to a therapist. My therapist, I sat down with my therapist and told her the whole thing. I said, I think I'm in love with this woman. She had been with me through the marriage. I said, I cannot – I cannot have sex with my husband again. Something about my body – we hadn't even been in the same room together besides that. But I just couldn't do it. And she said –

I understand what you're saying about not being able to have sex with him anymore. Have you considered just giving blowjobs? Because many women find that to be less intimate. My therapist said that to me. And Alex, that was the moment I was like, as God is my witness, I will never give a blowjob. I don't know much, but I freaking know that much.

I understand what you're saying about not being able to have sex with him anymore. Have you considered just giving blowjobs? Because many women find that to be less intimate. My therapist said that to me. And Alex, that was the moment I was like, as God is my witness, I will never give a blowjob. I don't know much, but I freaking know that much.

I understand what you're saying about not being able to have sex with him anymore. Have you considered just giving blowjobs? Because many women find that to be less intimate. My therapist said that to me. And Alex, that was the moment I was like, as God is my witness, I will never give a blowjob. I don't know much, but I freaking know that much.

And so it was something about that woman looking at me and saying, squash this. It's not real. Just give blowjobs the rest of your life. Where I was like, oh, no, thank you. No, no, no.

And so it was something about that woman looking at me and saying, squash this. It's not real. Just give blowjobs the rest of your life. Where I was like, oh, no, thank you. No, no, no.

And so it was something about that woman looking at me and saying, squash this. It's not real. Just give blowjobs the rest of your life. Where I was like, oh, no, thank you. No, no, no.

Yes. Okay, yes. What did you say? I just said, I mean, we had been through so much. And this man is an amazing father. And we married each other because it was the right thing to do, not because we were right for each other. And we both knew that. And in retrospect, when I think about how we got married, I really railroaded it. Like I was scared. I was freshly sober. I was pregnant.

Yes. Okay, yes. What did you say? I just said, I mean, we had been through so much. And this man is an amazing father. And we married each other because it was the right thing to do, not because we were right for each other. And we both knew that. And in retrospect, when I think about how we got married, I really railroaded it. Like I was scared. I was freshly sober. I was pregnant.

Yes. Okay, yes. What did you say? I just said, I mean, we had been through so much. And this man is an amazing father. And we married each other because it was the right thing to do, not because we were right for each other. And we both knew that. And in retrospect, when I think about how we got married, I really railroaded it. Like I was scared. I was freshly sober. I was pregnant.

And I thought, we got to do this. Like we need to become a family. And I ignored everything.

And I thought, we got to do this. Like we need to become a family. And I ignored everything.

And I thought, we got to do this. Like we need to become a family. And I ignored everything.

terrified look in his eyes like I can we weren't ready but he did the best he could and I and there was infidelity and it was messy but I just remember thinking I don't owe this man the rest of my life but I do owe him the truth about now so I just said I am in love with a woman and there was a lot of silence And then a week later, we told the kids and we had not even tested.

terrified look in his eyes like I can we weren't ready but he did the best he could and I and there was infidelity and it was messy but I just remember thinking I don't owe this man the rest of my life but I do owe him the truth about now so I just said I am in love with a woman and there was a lot of silence And then a week later, we told the kids and we had not even tested.

terrified look in his eyes like I can we weren't ready but he did the best he could and I and there was infidelity and it was messy but I just remember thinking I don't owe this man the rest of my life but I do owe him the truth about now so I just said I am in love with a woman and there was a lot of silence And then a week later, we told the kids and we had not even tested.

We had not been together except for that one night. We blew it all up.

We had not been together except for that one night. We blew it all up.

We had not been together except for that one night. We blew it all up.

No.