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Glennon

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
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We Can Do Hard Things
How to Spot a Narcissist with Caroline Strawson (Best Of)

Oh, me too. But I am, but I can own that. I'm like, yes, I did that thing. And I'm working on that thing. And that thing is really hard for me. And I'm probably not going to get it right for another 10 years. And my partner is, can know what they do that is not correct and know where we struggle.

We Can Do Hard Things
How to Spot a Narcissist with Caroline Strawson (Best Of)

But I feel like when you're going back to the other person, when you're not responsible for yourself, when you say there's something empty in me, there's a problem in my life and you are looking to the other person as the reason that's a problem or an answer to that problem and never knowing that you're responsible for yourself, that's when you get in all this mess, right?

We Can Do Hard Things
How to Spot a Narcissist with Caroline Strawson (Best Of)

But I feel like when you're going back to the other person, when you're not responsible for yourself, when you say there's something empty in me, there's a problem in my life and you are looking to the other person as the reason that's a problem or an answer to that problem and never knowing that you're responsible for yourself, that's when you get in all this mess, right?

We Can Do Hard Things
How to Spot a Narcissist with Caroline Strawson (Best Of)

But I feel like when you're going back to the other person, when you're not responsible for yourself, when you say there's something empty in me, there's a problem in my life and you are looking to the other person as the reason that's a problem or an answer to that problem and never knowing that you're responsible for yourself, that's when you get in all this mess, right?

We Can Do Hard Things
How to Spot a Narcissist with Caroline Strawson (Best Of)

Because what you've just said is the narcissist can never, be held responsible for anything. Everything is deflection. Everything is someone else's fault. Everything is because you did it or the world did it to me and nothing is their own.

We Can Do Hard Things
How to Spot a Narcissist with Caroline Strawson (Best Of)

Because what you've just said is the narcissist can never, be held responsible for anything. Everything is deflection. Everything is someone else's fault. Everything is because you did it or the world did it to me and nothing is their own.

We Can Do Hard Things
How to Spot a Narcissist with Caroline Strawson (Best Of)

Because what you've just said is the narcissist can never, be held responsible for anything. Everything is deflection. Everything is someone else's fault. Everything is because you did it or the world did it to me and nothing is their own.

We Can Do Hard Things
How to Spot a Narcissist with Caroline Strawson (Best Of)

So everyone hear Caroline when she says, just because they have the parts and they're not bad, they are not fit to be in a relationship with. That's right. This is the explanation, not the excuse. Yes, this doesn't mean work harder so you can understand their parts. This means run like the ever-loving one.

We Can Do Hard Things
How to Spot a Narcissist with Caroline Strawson (Best Of)

So everyone hear Caroline when she says, just because they have the parts and they're not bad, they are not fit to be in a relationship with. That's right. This is the explanation, not the excuse. Yes, this doesn't mean work harder so you can understand their parts. This means run like the ever-loving one.

We Can Do Hard Things
How to Spot a Narcissist with Caroline Strawson (Best Of)

So everyone hear Caroline when she says, just because they have the parts and they're not bad, they are not fit to be in a relationship with. That's right. This is the explanation, not the excuse. Yes, this doesn't mean work harder so you can understand their parts. This means run like the ever-loving one.

We Can Do Hard Things
How to Spot a Narcissist with Caroline Strawson (Best Of)

And bringing all the data and the science to something that has previously felt like it's not even a reality. Like it's something that we're just existing in. I feel like bringing that to this conversation is so empowering and de-shaming. It is like, the scientific equivalent of like, you're not crazy and it's really valuable. And I have learned a lot.

We Can Do Hard Things
How to Spot a Narcissist with Caroline Strawson (Best Of)

And bringing all the data and the science to something that has previously felt like it's not even a reality. Like it's something that we're just existing in. I feel like bringing that to this conversation is so empowering and de-shaming. It is like, the scientific equivalent of like, you're not crazy and it's really valuable. And I have learned a lot.

We Can Do Hard Things
How to Spot a Narcissist with Caroline Strawson (Best Of)

And bringing all the data and the science to something that has previously felt like it's not even a reality. Like it's something that we're just existing in. I feel like bringing that to this conversation is so empowering and de-shaming. It is like, the scientific equivalent of like, you're not crazy and it's really valuable. And I have learned a lot.

We Can Do Hard Things
Are You a Cynic, Optimist, or Skeptic? Dr. Jamil Zaki Shares Which Type is Happiest

Hello!

We Can Do Hard Things
Are You a Cynic, Optimist, or Skeptic? Dr. Jamil Zaki Shares Which Type is Happiest

Hello!

We Can Do Hard Things
Are You a Cynic, Optimist, or Skeptic? Dr. Jamil Zaki Shares Which Type is Happiest

Hello!

We Can Do Hard Things
Are You a Cynic, Optimist, or Skeptic? Dr. Jamil Zaki Shares Which Type is Happiest

Hooray!

We Can Do Hard Things
Are You a Cynic, Optimist, or Skeptic? Dr. Jamil Zaki Shares Which Type is Happiest

Hooray!

We Can Do Hard Things
Are You a Cynic, Optimist, or Skeptic? Dr. Jamil Zaki Shares Which Type is Happiest

Hooray!

We Can Do Hard Things
Are You a Cynic, Optimist, or Skeptic? Dr. Jamil Zaki Shares Which Type is Happiest

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