Glennon

Absolutely.

Absolutely.

Absolutely.

This is so beautiful because what you've just described and Glennon, when you're talking about what love is and to Abby's point about how can we all know that we're not with narcissists or are narcissists? It's like love to me is being responsible for myself. in partnership with someone else who is responsible for themselves. I mean, I can be a complete asshole in my relationship and often.

This is so beautiful because what you've just described and Glennon, when you're talking about what love is and to Abby's point about how can we all know that we're not with narcissists or are narcissists? It's like love to me is being responsible for myself. in partnership with someone else who is responsible for themselves. I mean, I can be a complete asshole in my relationship and often.

This is so beautiful because what you've just described and Glennon, when you're talking about what love is and to Abby's point about how can we all know that we're not with narcissists or are narcissists? It's like love to me is being responsible for myself. in partnership with someone else who is responsible for themselves. I mean, I can be a complete asshole in my relationship and often.

Oh, me too. But I am, but I can own that. I'm like, yes, I did that thing. And I'm working on that thing. And that thing is really hard for me. And I'm probably not going to get it right for another 10 years. And my partner is, can know what they do that is not correct and know where we struggle.

Oh, me too. But I am, but I can own that. I'm like, yes, I did that thing. And I'm working on that thing. And that thing is really hard for me. And I'm probably not going to get it right for another 10 years. And my partner is, can know what they do that is not correct and know where we struggle.

Oh, me too. But I am, but I can own that. I'm like, yes, I did that thing. And I'm working on that thing. And that thing is really hard for me. And I'm probably not going to get it right for another 10 years. And my partner is, can know what they do that is not correct and know where we struggle.

But I feel like when you're going back to the other person, when you're not responsible for yourself, when you say there's something empty in me, there's a problem in my life and you are looking to the other person as the reason that's a problem or an answer to that problem and never knowing that you're responsible for yourself, that's when you get in all this mess, right?

But I feel like when you're going back to the other person, when you're not responsible for yourself, when you say there's something empty in me, there's a problem in my life and you are looking to the other person as the reason that's a problem or an answer to that problem and never knowing that you're responsible for yourself, that's when you get in all this mess, right?

But I feel like when you're going back to the other person, when you're not responsible for yourself, when you say there's something empty in me, there's a problem in my life and you are looking to the other person as the reason that's a problem or an answer to that problem and never knowing that you're responsible for yourself, that's when you get in all this mess, right?

Because what you've just said is the narcissist can never, be held responsible for anything. Everything is deflection. Everything is someone else's fault. Everything is because you did it or the world did it to me and nothing is their own.

Because what you've just said is the narcissist can never, be held responsible for anything. Everything is deflection. Everything is someone else's fault. Everything is because you did it or the world did it to me and nothing is their own.

Because what you've just said is the narcissist can never, be held responsible for anything. Everything is deflection. Everything is someone else's fault. Everything is because you did it or the world did it to me and nothing is their own.

So everyone hear Caroline when she says, just because they have the parts and they're not bad, they are not fit to be in a relationship with. That's right. This is the explanation, not the excuse. Yes, this doesn't mean work harder so you can understand their parts. This means run like the ever-loving one.

So everyone hear Caroline when she says, just because they have the parts and they're not bad, they are not fit to be in a relationship with. That's right. This is the explanation, not the excuse. Yes, this doesn't mean work harder so you can understand their parts. This means run like the ever-loving one.

So everyone hear Caroline when she says, just because they have the parts and they're not bad, they are not fit to be in a relationship with. That's right. This is the explanation, not the excuse. Yes, this doesn't mean work harder so you can understand their parts. This means run like the ever-loving one.

And bringing all the data and the science to something that has previously felt like it's not even a reality. Like it's something that we're just existing in. I feel like bringing that to this conversation is so empowering and de-shaming. It is like, the scientific equivalent of like, you're not crazy and it's really valuable. And I have learned a lot.

And bringing all the data and the science to something that has previously felt like it's not even a reality. Like it's something that we're just existing in. I feel like bringing that to this conversation is so empowering and de-shaming. It is like, the scientific equivalent of like, you're not crazy and it's really valuable. And I have learned a lot.