Gordon Flett
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1,089 appearances
3 recordings
2 series
first heard Feb 2026
last heard 15 Jun
Gordon Flett’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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And there's a multitude of ways you can do that.
First of all, it's going to be a sign that they might feel they don't matter if they're just not engaging.
They're locking the door a lot.
They're not spending time.
One thing I want to point out, though, is that
The underestimates of parents also applies to mental health issues in general.
It's well known through multiple studies that parents underestimate the despair and that it's because they're so good at hiding behind a facade or throwing themselves into things like sports or friendships, but nobody ever really taps into how they're feeling inside.
So the outside doesn't match the inside.
I would just say if, and again, if the child seems too unflappable, that to me is an indication.
I'm particularly concerned about the perfectionistic young people who put on the perfect front.
And then we hear a sad story where somebody says, nobody knew that this was a problem.
They didn't know that he or she was feeling this way.
But I say, you know, just find ways to engage.
And the best way is to find some group things where you can just spend time together.
One of the best solid indicators of a sense of mattering, especially when there's been a breakup in the family, the single parent situation, is how much time the parent spends with the child in things where they seem to be enjoying each other's company.
And that can give a, you know, but also just asking questions in a way that will elicit a sense of what's going on for that child's feelings.
So just as an illustration of this, my wife has relatives in Hingham, Massachusetts.
And almost all of them are retired teachers.
My wife is a retired educator as well.
So we were there visiting one day while back and Jane, who's a fabulous retired educator has, has her grandchild coming in.
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