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OK.

But ask your doctor for a referral if you want to go that way.

Okay.

Amazing.

Very negative association.

Yes.

I'm going to assume it's in relation to giving oral sex or giving blowjobs specifically.

So everyone's anatomy is different.

And some people, I mean, some people have very weak gag reflex.

Some people it's really strong.

I'm not an expert in the throat anatomy, but

Yes, like people can train.

A lot of people can train theirs if they really want to.

You can kind of desensitize it a bit with different techniques, learning to relax the throat, learning to kind of adjust your breathing, even trying different positions when giving oral sex.

I think the bottom line is, though, I mean, only go and put the effort into doing that if it's something you really enjoy and want to do, you know.

Not just for their pleasure, if it's making you really uncomfortable, because like it's not a pleasant experience.

If that's someone now with a really strong reflex who actually feels like sick or feels pain, you know, no one wants to be feeling that.

No.

There are techniques you can try, but like, you know, just check in with yourself as well and make sure you feel OK with what you're doing or being asked to do, because you can give a perfectly good blowjob.

You can perform oral sex perfectly well without, you know, going right back someone's throat, basically.