Grace Beverley

He opens up to me.

This guy is going through all sorts.

He's got mental.

Compliments me and he says he likes me, but his situation with his divorce is clearly affecting him.

He even cancelled plans last minute after an argument with his ex, later calling me upset and saying he doesn't want to... Sorry about that.

I'm clearly not very good at keeping a neutral approach to this.

And saying he doesn't want to drag me into something difficult.

I really like him and I feel something I've never felt before, but I'm scared of getting hurt or holding on to something that might not be right.

I don't know whether to keep seeing him and take things slow or walk away from the first person I felt truly comfortable with.

I'm walking away.

And I say that for my age gap relationship, but once my frontal lobe was opened.

Like, genuinely, yeah, thank God.

But genuinely, like...

I also think the part where it's like, do I walk away from the first person I felt comfortable with?

It's like feeling comfortable is not the only metric of success.

So like there are two things here.

On the one hand, you might feel comfortable because you are attracted to avoidant men.

In which case, like maybe feeling comfortable is not the right thing for you.

Like maybe you need to address the fact that I'm not saying that's the case, but that could be the case.

in order to find the right person because you'll then feel comfortable in actual like security and support and healthy relationship.