Grandma Gail

And, you know, what happens is love is different.

It takes on different aspects of every different part of your life.

When you're first married, you're in a honeymoon phase.

When you're in children, you're in a stressful time.

When you're in retirement, you're doing things that both of you probably like to do together or that you do things that you enjoy like travel or going on adventures.

And then when you get older in the golden years, you support each other because not every day is a picnic.

And you might be financially in a better position as you get older, but not as in good health.

So you have to go through those phases.

Or all of a sudden, one of you wants to...

play cards all day long.

And the other one wants to go out and play golf.

So I think what happens is you have to, you know what, you compromise again and you have a good time at each time in your life.

As long as everybody is on the same page on the major issues, life is good.

I think we think about each other on what we would like, what are likes and dislikes.

It's a lot of little things to show your love.

Exactly.

I'm not going to pour garlic on his meat if I know he doesn't like it.

So, I mean, you know, it's what you've seen over the years by living together, being together, and you try to avoid the things that you know aggravate the person.

It's not worth it.

more annoying no I don't think any habits I think we've grown together that we've almost we've developed the habits together exactly we're developing the same habits so we can't even argue anymore we know the other one is going to say before we even finish the sentence and that's what a marriage is all about finishing the other person's sentence what keeps you choosing each other