Grant Clifton

My personality, you know.

And I enjoy it.

That's what I do.

I help people.

Absolutely.

Probably to my own detriment at times.

I've done it for free for a long time.

And I've also, you know, once people know there's someone they can lean on, particularly with relationships and stuff like that.

I did a lot of study about that a few years ago.

Spent about three years studying different.

I wanted to know why all this happens.

why you feel the way you do when you go through trauma yeah you know why you have that knot in your stomach and yeah you can't eat and and um you know and i see i see actually on the alpha books pages a lot of time blokes reaching out for help yeah um and you know first of all

the core root of their problems has probably been finances at some stage, which then leads to the relationship breakdown and all of a sudden, oh, the missus is gone and, you know, the shit, pervial shit's hit the fan and they're like, I'm on my own.

What do I do now?

You know, and it's a tough time.

It's probably the worst thing you'll ever go through in your life, apart from losing a loved one, you know.

And so what I do know, and I just saw, I think I was looking at the Facebook for the trendsetters last night and there was a fella on there reaching out

because his wife had just left him.

And I'm sitting there thinking, I know that pain.

And I have to stop myself sometimes from commenting.