Guest 1

Kia ora, Alexis.

I just wanted to say I love you so much.

I've listened to you for years.

You're my whanau, my family, my voice of reason, just everything obsessed with you.

I just kind of want to talk about like limerence and love bombing.

Essentially, I skipped over to say love bombing because I am the love bomber.

Like I...

But it doesn't come from a manipulative sense.

I just build really deep connections with people.

Friendships are my strength.

I love that about myself.

I can walk into a room and make a friend with a fucking brick wall.

I love that about myself.

But then, essentially, I get into...

romantic things and it's obviously that mixed with intimacy and then you know I just I built these really deep connections with with people and I know I do think a lot of it is like limerence for sure which is something that I'm really really trying to work on listen to so many podcasts about it

love reading subtext about it.

Like I'm so painfully self-aware.

It's not even funny.

And I like compulsively overanalyze my, my feelings and emotions.

Um, and you know, like I, I know all of this, but I just think a massive part of it is like, I build really deep connections with people, but I guess I just kind of wanted some advice on it because I don't want to change.