Gyles Brandreth

And Richard went forward and said, I must tell you something.

There's only one thing you can change, and that is yourself.

The only thing of which you have control, ultimately, is yourself.

So I just share those two aperçu.

So that was a very moving, very moving occasion.

This was an important moment, funnily enough, in different ways for all of us.

And people took away from it different things.

And it was interesting watching the people, some who were snuffling, some who were crying openly.

Many weren't crying at all.

And it reminded me again,

What I've learned through doing Rosebud and through being with you, Harriet, is that everybody's different.

There isn't a right way or a wrong way to do anything.

There isn't a right way to mourn.

There isn't a right way to make your marriage work.

There isn't a right way to be a friend or a wrong way.

There's just a lot of different ways.

So, Harriet, what's been the best thing to happen to you this week?

My most memorable thing.

What sort of a friend am I?

You ask me what's been happening to me and I tell you about three people who have died.