Harley Finkelstein

I didn't know what questions to ask.

Dave and I were kind of awkward fumbling along together.

And Bailey, my eldest, has sort of memorized most of that episode.

And now she watches that.

They love watching Big Shot.

They also watched the most recent episode, Bobby Kotick, who built Activision Blizzard.

We put that out last week.

And I love watching her see the difference in style and the articulation because I want her to know that like all the things she wants in her life, she can have, but it won't be easy.

No one's going to give it to her.

And it's going to kind of suck at the beginning.

I mean, I don't want to create artificial scarcity or artificial, you know,

I don't want to create things that don't exist for my kids and pretend like our life is different than it is.

This is where Lindsay's really great.

Lindsay's a psychotherapist, so she thinks a lot more about this than I do.

But she'll often remind me that, like, it's not what you say, it's what you do, it's what they see.

And so, you know, for example, we're fortunate to have some help at the house.

But, like, Bailey makes her bed every day.

Bailey puts her dishes away.

Now, that's very different than, you know, what Chris Bosch said about, like, you know, how he grew up.

But there's a certain level of like respect that we show the people that have helped us.