Harley Finkelstein

And if we're respectful, they're going to be respectful.

And if we're hardworking, they're going to be hardworking.

And I think part of that, back to the family model of how you do anything is how you do everything.

I don't actually care what my kids end up doing professionally, whether they're entrepreneurs or they're musicians or they have a trade that they work on.

I just want them to have intentionality.

I don't want them to do something just because, well, this is kind of where life brought me.

I hate that.

The opposite of how you do anything is how you do everything is this other term that I hate.

I hate when anyone says it, which is it is what it is.

I don't believe that to be true.

I hate that expression is what it is.

What does it even mean?

It is what it is.

It means that like somehow you were just this thing happened.

You're accepting it.

You can change your own fate.

You can change your own life.

You can change everything about everything around you.

I want my kids to see that that is not the way to live.

That living with great intentionality is important.