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I do get that a lot because when you're like, oh, ask me questions, and then you click on the question to respond to it on Snapchat, they're like little emoji and name pops up.
we don't want toxic friends no definitely like but it's i know it's weird when you like have a friend that's not toxic but then all of a sudden they start acting toxic you need to tell them they're being toxic yeah you have like sit down conversation yeah and we talk to them or they start crying
multiple times actually oh you need better friends kate apparently i don't talk i don't like put up with it the second someone starts being mean to me i talk to them i'm like you suck and they all cry yes because maybe you shouldn't say you suck no i don't say that no i don't say that but when somebody is being mean to you you can choose to just stop being friends with them but if it's somebody that like yeah like don't just don't hang out with them but if you're like
Oh, I really love this person.
We've been friends for a long time and I don't want to lose them as a friend.
It is okay to like sit down and talk with them and don't tell them they suck.
So the times that this has happened, I've just literally been like, you've been like...
very mean the past few weeks months whatever it's been you haven't been treating people kindly you make people feel bad about themselves and we don't appreciate that because a lot of times the person is toxic to everyone around them so they need to be told that
It's not just you, it's everyone around them is seeing it.
And usually when you tell somebody, hey, we don't really like the way you have been acting, they're going to get upset and feel bad that they've been mean or whatever.
And so, yeah, a lot of times people start crying and then it's like, okay, they are showing remorse for it.
And then it's up to them to make the decision of do I want to be a nicer person or do I not want to be a nice person?