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Hayden Finch

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Something You Should Know
How to Build Confidence Fast & Why You Keep Procrastinating

So say you want to just fold your laundry.

Something You Should Know
How to Build Confidence Fast & Why You Keep Procrastinating

You've had it done.

Something You Should Know
How to Build Confidence Fast & Why You Keep Procrastinating

It's washed and dried, but it's not folded.

Something You Should Know
How to Build Confidence Fast & Why You Keep Procrastinating

And it's been something you've been putting off.

Something You Should Know
How to Build Confidence Fast & Why You Keep Procrastinating

There might be reasons for that.

Something You Should Know
How to Build Confidence Fast & Why You Keep Procrastinating

There might be legitimate reasons.

Something You Should Know
How to Build Confidence Fast & Why You Keep Procrastinating

There are other things that you've wanted to work on, other things you need to do, other things you want to do.

Something You Should Know
How to Build Confidence Fast & Why You Keep Procrastinating

But the other part of that story is that just like, I don't want to like that feeling that like I'd rather not.

Something You Should Know
How to Build Confidence Fast & Why You Keep Procrastinating

That feeling is a huge part of what ultimately motivates procrastination.

Something You Should Know
How to Build Confidence Fast & Why You Keep Procrastinating

There is some truth to that, that a certain group of people does work better under pressure.

Something You Should Know
How to Build Confidence Fast & Why You Keep Procrastinating

But by and large, almost everyone who believes that to be true about themselves is wrong.

Something You Should Know
How to Build Confidence Fast & Why You Keep Procrastinating

If we test that out in a research lab, we find that people actually perform poorer.

Something You Should Know
How to Build Confidence Fast & Why You Keep Procrastinating

They make more mistakes, for example, when they are under pressure versus when they have adequate time to really put some thought into it.

Something You Should Know
How to Build Confidence Fast & Why You Keep Procrastinating

So that is a false assumption that a lot of us are making about ourselves.

Something You Should Know
How to Build Confidence Fast & Why You Keep Procrastinating

Well, it's sort of not a problem unless it is a problem, right?

Something You Should Know
How to Build Confidence Fast & Why You Keep Procrastinating

And we might not be aware of the problems that it's causing, which is the trouble.

Something You Should Know
How to Build Confidence Fast & Why You Keep Procrastinating

Like, we have evidence that procrastination affects loneliness.

Something You Should Know
How to Build Confidence Fast & Why You Keep Procrastinating

It affects economic difficulties.

Something You Should Know
How to Build Confidence Fast & Why You Keep Procrastinating

It affects depression and anxiety.

Something You Should Know
How to Build Confidence Fast & Why You Keep Procrastinating

And it sometimes is difficult to draw a straight line from my procrastination to my financial difficulties.