Hayden McDougall

Or they're telling everyone at church, wait until you're married to have sex.

The problem is the girls are not doing that.

And then a lot of the guys are doing that.

The church I grew up going to...

The guys were waiting.

I knew guys that were 25, 26, 30-year-old virgins.

Oh, really?

Yes.

At my church, North Coast Calvary Chapel, I knew tons of guys that were in their 20s, and they were virgins, guys who could have gotten laid that said no.

I was one of those guys.

I didn't lose my virginity until I was 23 years old.

I was a good Christian kid.

I'm still a Christian.

I'm not really a good Christian anymore, but for a long time, I was really trying to do the right thing.

I thought the right thing was wait until you're married to have sex.

One day I'm looking around at church and I'm like, man, none of the girls here are virgins.

And then the girls here, not only are they whores, they're not even interested in the guys at church.

The classic advice to incels or guys struggling with girls is go find a girl at church to marry.

And –

I don't even think that's good advice.