Hayley
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And if I can't answer them, can you step in?
Well, look, you can, particularly if you've got a child with them.
But ideally, you've got to be really good with your boundaries.
That's the bigger question.
Can you say no to them?
Can you make it very clear that there's no feelings there?
No chance of a rekindle.
Correct.
So it's how you manage the boundaries with the ex that's so important.
So yes, you can have them as a friend, but you've got to be really clear that they are just friends.
No.
That's a flat no.
That is a hard no.
That's going to send mixed messages.
Great in a sack.
But then you wouldn't want to be friends with them if their personality sucks.
Oh, you're true.
No, you don't want to do that.
The other problem with that is, of course, it takes you out of the game.
If you're looking for someone and you're still shagging your ex, you're not really available.