Heather Dubrow

And do you see how my tone has changed and how I'm talking to my spouse because I want to be sweet to get this thing. It sets up such a terrible relationship between you and your significant other when you have to act a certain way in order to get things that you want or need.

from the relationship, whether it's emotional needs or financial things or articles of clothing or gifts or whatever it is. It's a terrible way to set yourself up. Everyone needs to be independent.

from the relationship, whether it's emotional needs or financial things or articles of clothing or gifts or whatever it is. It's a terrible way to set yourself up. Everyone needs to be independent.

from the relationship, whether it's emotional needs or financial things or articles of clothing or gifts or whatever it is. It's a terrible way to set yourself up. Everyone needs to be independent.

It depends. I think everything is relative, but it's the conversation about how stay-at-home moms don't get paid, which is ridiculous. There should be money. If one partner is going out to earn, let's say, as the breadwinner, and one partner is staying home to raise the children, that partner should be, there should be money for that partner. Set aside. that is theirs to do with what they wish.

It depends. I think everything is relative, but it's the conversation about how stay-at-home moms don't get paid, which is ridiculous. There should be money. If one partner is going out to earn, let's say, as the breadwinner, and one partner is staying home to raise the children, that partner should be, there should be money for that partner. Set aside. that is theirs to do with what they wish.

It depends. I think everything is relative, but it's the conversation about how stay-at-home moms don't get paid, which is ridiculous. There should be money. If one partner is going out to earn, let's say, as the breadwinner, and one partner is staying home to raise the children, that partner should be, there should be money for that partner. Set aside. that is theirs to do with what they wish.

There should be money that goes to the household, money that goes to education, all these things. That's your, fuck me, I can do whatever the fuck I want with this money. Or else you're set up in that story that Goldie Hawn is talking about and have nothing. I remember very well going from a full-time working actress making, I think I was making $60,000 an episode on that show. And this is 2002.

There should be money that goes to the household, money that goes to education, all these things. That's your, fuck me, I can do whatever the fuck I want with this money. Or else you're set up in that story that Goldie Hawn is talking about and have nothing. I remember very well going from a full-time working actress making, I think I was making $60,000 an episode on that show. And this is 2002.

There should be money that goes to the household, money that goes to education, all these things. That's your, fuck me, I can do whatever the fuck I want with this money. Or else you're set up in that story that Goldie Hawn is talking about and have nothing. I remember very well going from a full-time working actress making, I think I was making $60,000 an episode on that show. And this is 2002.

Wow. Plus reruns and residuals. Not just residuals, but like other ancillary businesses that I was doing and getting paid for and whatever. I was making a lot of money. I went from doing that to being the full stay at home mom, full time of twins. And it was, and moving to Orange County.

Wow. Plus reruns and residuals. Not just residuals, but like other ancillary businesses that I was doing and getting paid for and whatever. I was making a lot of money. I went from doing that to being the full stay at home mom, full time of twins. And it was, and moving to Orange County.

Wow. Plus reruns and residuals. Not just residuals, but like other ancillary businesses that I was doing and getting paid for and whatever. I was making a lot of money. I went from doing that to being the full stay at home mom, full time of twins. And it was, and moving to Orange County.

All of a sudden I watched my money go to zero because I did have investments and I did have all of that stuff, but I didn't have any assets. flow. There was no more income. And so all of a sudden it was only outgo. And it was like, now I'm set up in a position to what ask my husband for money or how much can I spend? It was very strange. And to your point really could have changed.

All of a sudden I watched my money go to zero because I did have investments and I did have all of that stuff, but I didn't have any assets. flow. There was no more income. And so all of a sudden it was only outgo. And it was like, now I'm set up in a position to what ask my husband for money or how much can I spend? It was very strange. And to your point really could have changed.

All of a sudden I watched my money go to zero because I did have investments and I did have all of that stuff, but I didn't have any assets. flow. There was no more income. And so all of a sudden it was only outgo. And it was like, now I'm set up in a position to what ask my husband for money or how much can I spend? It was very strange. And to your point really could have changed.

Our relationship, does that make one partner more powerful than the other? What does that do to you? The dynamics, yeah. I hated it. I have to tell you, I hated not having my own money, even though it was all our money. And he never made me feel that way at all and was always valued what I did with our children and our family and keeping our whole family running and all of that. but I hated it.

Our relationship, does that make one partner more powerful than the other? What does that do to you? The dynamics, yeah. I hated it. I have to tell you, I hated not having my own money, even though it was all our money. And he never made me feel that way at all and was always valued what I did with our children and our family and keeping our whole family running and all of that. but I hated it.

Our relationship, does that make one partner more powerful than the other? What does that do to you? The dynamics, yeah. I hated it. I have to tell you, I hated not having my own money, even though it was all our money. And he never made me feel that way at all and was always valued what I did with our children and our family and keeping our whole family running and all of that. but I hated it.

And I can't say that I remember a specific conversation, but I do remember having multiple conversations about what our financial life moving forward looked like.