Heather Moyse
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Podcast Appearances
If it's a can I, that only leaves a binary option. of answers yes or no. And if it's something that someone really wants and it just seems so big and just so enormous, then they're probably going to be like, well, if my choices are yes or no, then the answer is going to be probably not. So then why bother trying? Whereas if you don't even ask that question, can I, but you say, how can I?
It immediately shifts your focus into solutions. It immediately is, you're not even thinking about whether you can or not. You're just thinking, How would I be able to do this? What would be the steps that I could do? So you're automatically shifted over into solution mindset.
It immediately shifts your focus into solutions. It immediately is, you're not even thinking about whether you can or not. You're just thinking, How would I be able to do this? What would be the steps that I could do? So you're automatically shifted over into solution mindset.
It immediately shifts your focus into solutions. It immediately is, you're not even thinking about whether you can or not. You're just thinking, How would I be able to do this? What would be the steps that I could do? So you're automatically shifted over into solution mindset.
So this how this word, this one word can make a massive difference in ultimately where whether you choose to pursue something or not and how far you go. Now, I'm saying that trying to tie that back into my parents, because for them, the whole idea of whether we pursue something or not, whether we believe in the possibilities of achieving those things or not.
So this how this word, this one word can make a massive difference in ultimately where whether you choose to pursue something or not and how far you go. Now, I'm saying that trying to tie that back into my parents, because for them, the whole idea of whether we pursue something or not, whether we believe in the possibilities of achieving those things or not.
So this how this word, this one word can make a massive difference in ultimately where whether you choose to pursue something or not and how far you go. Now, I'm saying that trying to tie that back into my parents, because for them, the whole idea of whether we pursue something or not, whether we believe in the possibilities of achieving those things or not.
Humans only take actions if they believe that the outcome is possible. So my parents, without even probably realizing it, and without me realizing it at the time, taught me a couple of very important lessons growing up. And one was about visualization. And one was about breaking down your goal into small manageable pieces and focusing on the process. So focusing on that how piece.
Humans only take actions if they believe that the outcome is possible. So my parents, without even probably realizing it, and without me realizing it at the time, taught me a couple of very important lessons growing up. And one was about visualization. And one was about breaking down your goal into small manageable pieces and focusing on the process. So focusing on that how piece.
Humans only take actions if they believe that the outcome is possible. So my parents, without even probably realizing it, and without me realizing it at the time, taught me a couple of very important lessons growing up. And one was about visualization. And one was about breaking down your goal into small manageable pieces and focusing on the process. So focusing on that how piece.
And the reason they would do that would be if I, when I was young, I probably changed what I wanted to be when I grew up every day. Every day was probably a different thing. Possibly every hour. I don't know. But as soon as I said something like, oh, you know what? I'm going to grow up to become an astronaut. My question, my parents would never, ever squash the possibilities of that. Instead,
And the reason they would do that would be if I, when I was young, I probably changed what I wanted to be when I grew up every day. Every day was probably a different thing. Possibly every hour. I don't know. But as soon as I said something like, oh, you know what? I'm going to grow up to become an astronaut. My question, my parents would never, ever squash the possibilities of that. Instead,
And the reason they would do that would be if I, when I was young, I probably changed what I wanted to be when I grew up every day. Every day was probably a different thing. Possibly every hour. I don't know. But as soon as I said something like, oh, you know what? I'm going to grow up to become an astronaut. My question, my parents would never, ever squash the possibilities of that. Instead,
They would say, oh my goodness, that would be so amazing. How do you think, what do you think it would take to get there? Or what are the, what do you think an astronaut would need to know? Or how do you think you could actually become an astronaut? And it starts getting you thinking at the age of four, five, six, seven, eight. you start thinking about how, what are the solutions to get there?
They would say, oh my goodness, that would be so amazing. How do you think, what do you think it would take to get there? Or what are the, what do you think an astronaut would need to know? Or how do you think you could actually become an astronaut? And it starts getting you thinking at the age of four, five, six, seven, eight. you start thinking about how, what are the solutions to get there?
They would say, oh my goodness, that would be so amazing. How do you think, what do you think it would take to get there? Or what are the, what do you think an astronaut would need to know? Or how do you think you could actually become an astronaut? And it starts getting you thinking at the age of four, five, six, seven, eight. you start thinking about how, what are the solutions to get there?
How could this be possible? What are the different ways to get there? And so it automatically shifts that focus. If it's something like my sister, for example, and I wrote this in my book with her restrained permission, my sister, when she was little, wanted to grow up to become a chickadee. Okay. So she's obviously not going to transform herself into a physical bird.
How could this be possible? What are the different ways to get there? And so it automatically shifts that focus. If it's something like my sister, for example, and I wrote this in my book with her restrained permission, my sister, when she was little, wanted to grow up to become a chickadee. Okay. So she's obviously not going to transform herself into a physical bird.
How could this be possible? What are the different ways to get there? And so it automatically shifts that focus. If it's something like my sister, for example, and I wrote this in my book with her restrained permission, my sister, when she was little, wanted to grow up to become a chickadee. Okay. So she's obviously not going to transform herself into a physical bird.
But again, my parents, I mean, do they really need to tell her she's not going to do that? There's no point in doing that. There's no point in squashing that dream or that vision or that fantasy. And so all they said was, wow, that would be so cool. What's the first thing that you would do if you were to become a chickabee? All that's doing is filling out your imagination.