Heather Moyse
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I've never heard of the both end thinking, but that's basically exactly what it is. As soon as you, when you break something down, when you break down a seemingly insurmountable goal into the actual steps, a lot of people say, keep focused on your goal, keep focused on what you really want, whatever.
I've never heard of the both end thinking, but that's basically exactly what it is. As soon as you, when you break something down, when you break down a seemingly insurmountable goal into the actual steps, a lot of people say, keep focused on your goal, keep focused on what you really want, whatever.
I've never heard of the both end thinking, but that's basically exactly what it is. As soon as you, when you break something down, when you break down a seemingly insurmountable goal into the actual steps, a lot of people say, keep focused on your goal, keep focused on what you really want, whatever.
But the problem with that is that it can seem so insurmountable that it just brings overwhelm and people just don't know where to start. And it seems so big that it just, why bother trying? It's so out there. But when you break something down, into exactly what it would take, what resources might you need, what is the very starting point, like all of these steps, then it becomes like a checkbox.
But the problem with that is that it can seem so insurmountable that it just brings overwhelm and people just don't know where to start. And it seems so big that it just, why bother trying? It's so out there. But when you break something down, into exactly what it would take, what resources might you need, what is the very starting point, like all of these steps, then it becomes like a checkbox.
But the problem with that is that it can seem so insurmountable that it just brings overwhelm and people just don't know where to start. And it seems so big that it just, why bother trying? It's so out there. But when you break something down, into exactly what it would take, what resources might you need, what is the very starting point, like all of these steps, then it becomes like a checkbox.
You're just checking off the boxes. And yes, for some people, it might be to achieve the same thing, it might require a longer list than other people because they may already have certain resources in place or they may have certain things or... Maybe they don't have, maybe finances isn't a problem for someone else.
You're just checking off the boxes. And yes, for some people, it might be to achieve the same thing, it might require a longer list than other people because they may already have certain resources in place or they may have certain things or... Maybe they don't have, maybe finances isn't a problem for someone else.
You're just checking off the boxes. And yes, for some people, it might be to achieve the same thing, it might require a longer list than other people because they may already have certain resources in place or they may have certain things or... Maybe they don't have, maybe finances isn't a problem for someone else.
Part of that checklist is how do I raise that money or how do I get enough money to do that application or to apply for the course that I need to get there? And all it is checking those things off. So it is, it almost simplifies things to the point where people can actually see the path. And then the key with that is that once they see the path,
Part of that checklist is how do I raise that money or how do I get enough money to do that application or to apply for the course that I need to get there? And all it is checking those things off. So it is, it almost simplifies things to the point where people can actually see the path. And then the key with that is that once they see the path,
Part of that checklist is how do I raise that money or how do I get enough money to do that application or to apply for the course that I need to get there? And all it is checking those things off. So it is, it almost simplifies things to the point where people can actually see the path. And then the key with that is that once they see the path,
then they can decide if it is something that they really want to do or not. They can see actually the effort that's involved. They can see everything that's going to take, and then they can own their choices of saying what, yes, I'm going to do this. I can see how I can do it. Now this is the, I can do it. Now it becomes a choice of, do I want to do it or do I not want to do it?
then they can decide if it is something that they really want to do or not. They can see actually the effort that's involved. They can see everything that's going to take, and then they can own their choices of saying what, yes, I'm going to do this. I can see how I can do it. Now this is the, I can do it. Now it becomes a choice of, do I want to do it or do I not want to do it?
then they can decide if it is something that they really want to do or not. They can see actually the effort that's involved. They can see everything that's going to take, and then they can own their choices of saying what, yes, I'm going to do this. I can see how I can do it. Now this is the, I can do it. Now it becomes a choice of, do I want to do it or do I not want to do it?
And I think part of that is understanding what it's going to take so that they understand also what it's going to sacrifice. And what sacrifices they're going to have to make to take that path. And then it becomes a choice. Instead of just a default feeling like helpless, I can't.
And I think part of that is understanding what it's going to take so that they understand also what it's going to sacrifice. And what sacrifices they're going to have to make to take that path. And then it becomes a choice. Instead of just a default feeling like helpless, I can't.
And I think part of that is understanding what it's going to take so that they understand also what it's going to sacrifice. And what sacrifices they're going to have to make to take that path. And then it becomes a choice. Instead of just a default feeling like helpless, I can't.
And I just think we're, I mean, my main thing right now is we are all capable of way more than we give ourselves credit for. And my question to most people is what's stopping you? Like what's really stopping you? Because it's really not this. external thing that's usually stopping us. It's usually the internal thing that's preventing us from even seeing if we can overcome that external thing.
And I just think we're, I mean, my main thing right now is we are all capable of way more than we give ourselves credit for. And my question to most people is what's stopping you? Like what's really stopping you? Because it's really not this. external thing that's usually stopping us. It's usually the internal thing that's preventing us from even seeing if we can overcome that external thing.