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Hilda Hinton

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
112 total appearances

Appearances Over Time

Podcast Appearances

The Bookshelf
The discomfort of grief and memory

It's been a revolving door since my sister moved in when she was about 14 and all her friends followed.

The Bookshelf
The discomfort of grief and memory

My children grew up and during their tumultuous teenage years, various friends would come and stay for varying amounts of time while they fixed up what was happening that left them a

The Bookshelf
The discomfort of grief and memory

I think with the exception of one, everyone's left better than when they arrived.

The Bookshelf
The discomfort of grief and memory

It is.

The Bookshelf
The discomfort of grief and memory

It's autobiographical fiction and I draw on my experiences of visiting my mum who stayed either at Parkville Hospital

The Bookshelf
The discomfort of grief and memory

private or Royal Park, sort of in the 70s.

The Bookshelf
The discomfort of grief and memory

And that was at a time where children just sort of were allowed to visit and be dropped off and roam the hallways.

The Bookshelf
The discomfort of grief and memory

And I tried to sort of reflect some of those experiences, not in a sort of trauma way, because it was also sort of fun and irreverent at times, although occasionally dark.

The Bookshelf
The discomfort of grief and memory

Yeah, it had a really big effect on me because I felt disconnected from my peers, even my dad in a way, because I didn't understand why nobody spoke about it or talked about it.

The Bookshelf
The discomfort of grief and memory

You know, certainly my peers weren't interested in that sort of thing.

The Bookshelf
The discomfort of grief and memory

They were too busy worrying about Duran Duran or whatever.

The Bookshelf
The discomfort of grief and memory

So I felt very isolated but I also felt like I was part of something when I was there and that included when mum was home in her flat, often with the same people I saw in the hospital's

The Bookshelf
The discomfort of grief and memory

all sort of gathered together during their up periods.

The Bookshelf
The discomfort of grief and memory

Yeah, I felt it normalising.

The Bookshelf
The discomfort of grief and memory

There was a stark difference between the two.

The Bookshelf
The discomfort of grief and memory

The private one was much more pleasant, not just in the

The Bookshelf
The discomfort of grief and memory

sort of decor and the fittings, but the staff were friendly and interactive and the patients didn't quite seem, yeah, they seemed a little more accessible and a little more together actually.

The Bookshelf
The discomfort of grief and memory

So I much preferred going there to Royal Park where it felt sort of dark and chaotic.

The Bookshelf
The discomfort of grief and memory

Well, I guess I stopped writing when family responsibilities took over.

The Bookshelf
The discomfort of grief and memory

I wrote when I was young.

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