Hillary McVeigh

Your capacity is expanding for when you're about to, you know, come in.

So if someone doesn't receive something in the way that you want, wow, can I hold this?

Because if I do want to create more impact, I have to be okay with some people not getting it.

It's all well and good to be like, yes, I want more impact, more clients, more money, more wealth.

But you're not willing to make hard decisions or you're not willing to be misunderstood.

You're going to stay small there.

So life will give you these opportunities to expand and we need to ground our nervous system in each one.

Remind it how safe you are.

Remind it that you can hold this.

As I said, nature, co-regulating, tapping, meditation, breath.

To me, it has to be perspective.

Perspective is what I believe is the most calm for the nervous system.

Because if your nervous system just says like, breathe, you're safe.

To me, that has never, if your nervous system feels unsafe.

I believe it needs a story or a reminder that it is safe.

So for me, having the perspective that this is coming for my greatest good,

Nothing wrong is happening.

It's actually the most right thing because I'm being asked for something even greater and bigger.

And that nervousness is a good sign.

Doubt is an amazing sign.