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Hi. I have a difficult question, and I'm really glad that I get to talk to both of you about it.

Hi. I have a difficult question, and I'm really glad that I get to talk to both of you about it.

Okay. I have to have a really hard conversation with my husband. I have to basically tell him in a loving way that I really don't care what his dreams and aspirations are, that I really just need him to get a better job.

Okay. I have to have a really hard conversation with my husband. I have to basically tell him in a loving way that I really don't care what his dreams and aspirations are, that I really just need him to get a better job.

Okay. I have to have a really hard conversation with my husband. I have to basically tell him in a loving way that I really don't care what his dreams and aspirations are, that I really just need him to get a better job.

You just need to make money.

You just need to make money.

You just need to make money.

Okay, so we've been married for 17 years. And we have five kids and another on the way. Oh, wow. Um, first 10 years he was active duty in the military. That was really, really hard on our relationship. And we made choices. He chose to get out because our family is more important and that stability is more important. And we made choices. Like I gave up my career.

Okay, so we've been married for 17 years. And we have five kids and another on the way. Oh, wow. Um, first 10 years he was active duty in the military. That was really, really hard on our relationship. And we made choices. He chose to get out because our family is more important and that stability is more important. And we made choices. Like I gave up my career.

Okay, so we've been married for 17 years. And we have five kids and another on the way. Oh, wow. Um, first 10 years he was active duty in the military. That was really, really hard on our relationship. And we made choices. He chose to get out because our family is more important and that stability is more important. And we made choices. Like I gave up my career.

I'm a preschool teacher, um, by trade and gave that up to be with our kids. And, um, We, I just, he's underemployed. He's working like. Yeah, what's his situation now job wise? He took a job that guarantees him 30 hours a week as a school bus driver. He has two degrees that we already did the hard work of getting. Like he got those since we've been married.

I'm a preschool teacher, um, by trade and gave that up to be with our kids. And, um, We, I just, he's underemployed. He's working like. Yeah, what's his situation now job wise? He took a job that guarantees him 30 hours a week as a school bus driver. He has two degrees that we already did the hard work of getting. Like he got those since we've been married.

I'm a preschool teacher, um, by trade and gave that up to be with our kids. And, um, We, I just, he's underemployed. He's working like. Yeah, what's his situation now job wise? He took a job that guarantees him 30 hours a week as a school bus driver. He has two degrees that we already did the hard work of getting. Like he got those since we've been married.

Um, it's really hard. He does get some disability, um, but it's not like complete or anything.

Um, it's really hard. He does get some disability, um, but it's not like complete or anything.

Um, it's really hard. He does get some disability, um, but it's not like complete or anything.

He's such a sweetheart. I think he really likes what he does. And he loves working with the people he works with. He's job hopped. He's experienced a lot of job loss because he left the military. And he finally has found a job that he really likes or the people really seem to appreciate him. But it doesn't make up for the fact that he's underpaid. And we're hustling. We're on baby step two.

He's such a sweetheart. I think he really likes what he does. And he loves working with the people he works with. He's job hopped. He's experienced a lot of job loss because he left the military. And he finally has found a job that he really likes or the people really seem to appreciate him. But it doesn't make up for the fact that he's underpaid. And we're hustling. We're on baby step two.

He's such a sweetheart. I think he really likes what he does. And he loves working with the people he works with. He's job hopped. He's experienced a lot of job loss because he left the military. And he finally has found a job that he really likes or the people really seem to appreciate him. But it doesn't make up for the fact that he's underpaid. And we're hustling. We're on baby step two.