Ian Crossland

We've got to make it seem like he's the greatest and all the guys look up to him.

I actually have advice for any younger guys out there who are concerned about the friend zone.

Really great advice for you.

If you are romantically interested, I'm not saying sexually, I'm saying romantically, which is both for companionship and for sex or whatever, romantically interested in a woman, and she is not interested in you,

You give her a hug and you say, we shouldn't see each other anymore, but I wish you the best and leave.

That's the best thing you can do.

It is not good for either person to be forced into a relationship that has not worked for each other.

And there's too many guys that fall into this stupid whiny loser guy trap where the girl says, we can't be friends.

It's like, listen, I want something you don't want and you want something I don't want.

So it's just, it's an incompatibility.

There's too much of this feminism where the perception given in media is that the man who wants more is selfish and should just accept being friends.

And I'm like, it takes two to tango, baby.

It goes the other way, too.

If a woman wants to be in a relationship with you, but you just want to be friends, it's probably best to just be like, it doesn't work for either of us.

Have y'all seen that video?

It goes viral all the time, where it's from some dating show.

And the woman, she's like, I just think that we would be better friends.

All I needed to hear, stands up, shakes her hand, says, I wish you the best.

She goes, no, we can't be friends.

He's like, I ain't got time for this.