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But one of the things that people don't share enough is how hard it is. And Tom Bilyeu, which, by the way, was another amazing speaker on my podcast, an amazing guest, says he sold his Quest Nutrition for a billion dollars. And he says, don't ask what's the least you can do. Ask what's the most you can bear.

But one of the things that people don't share enough is how hard it is. And Tom Bilyeu, which, by the way, was another amazing speaker on my podcast, an amazing guest, says he sold his Quest Nutrition for a billion dollars. And he says, don't ask what's the least you can do. Ask what's the most you can bear.

And I can't tell you how many I think and they are something I had a few conversation in my home yesterday. And I said, she's like, how many times do you ask yourself, can you do this? And I'm saying every goddamn day. Seriously, my husband is a witness. Every goddamn day. I say this is the hardest fucking thing ever on the planet. But I still go. So there is no shortcut, there is no easy pill.

And I can't tell you how many I think and they are something I had a few conversation in my home yesterday. And I said, she's like, how many times do you ask yourself, can you do this? And I'm saying every goddamn day. Seriously, my husband is a witness. Every goddamn day. I say this is the hardest fucking thing ever on the planet. But I still go. So there is no shortcut, there is no easy pill.

That does not exist. But that's why you want the map, you want the guide by your side, you want the network to lean on, and you still just continue, okay? And that was really important. This is a quote from Theodore Roosevelt. And he basically said, it's not the critic who counts, not the man who points out how the strong person stumbles or where the doer of the deeds could have done better.

That does not exist. But that's why you want the map, you want the guide by your side, you want the network to lean on, and you still just continue, okay? And that was really important. This is a quote from Theodore Roosevelt. And he basically said, it's not the critic who counts, not the man who points out how the strong person stumbles or where the doer of the deeds could have done better.

The credit belongs to the person who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred with dust and sweat and blood. And at best, They'll know at the end the triumph of high achievement, and at worst, if they fail, at least they fail while daring greatly. And when I listened to Brene Brown talk about this quote, I realized two things, and I want you to think about it for yourself. One,

The credit belongs to the person who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred with dust and sweat and blood. And at best, They'll know at the end the triumph of high achievement, and at worst, if they fail, at least they fail while daring greatly. And when I listened to Brene Brown talk about this quote, I realized two things, and I want you to think about it for yourself. One,

When I held my mom's hand, I promised that I want to be in the arena. I knew I wanted something bigger in my life. So that was already decided. So once you decide that, I want you to know only one thing that is absolutely guaranteed you will get your ass kicked, period. Is that a good deal? Yes. Okay, good.

When I held my mom's hand, I promised that I want to be in the arena. I knew I wanted something bigger in my life. So that was already decided. So once you decide that, I want you to know only one thing that is absolutely guaranteed you will get your ass kicked, period. Is that a good deal? Yes. Okay, good.

The second thing you need to understand is that there's always going to be naysayers, haters, critics. Always. Does that hurt? Absolutely. But if they're not in the arena with you, I don't give a damn. Or at least I will try not to. I will listen. I will listen to all the feedback. I always want to get better. There's always things that we can learn.

The second thing you need to understand is that there's always going to be naysayers, haters, critics. Always. Does that hurt? Absolutely. But if they're not in the arena with you, I don't give a damn. Or at least I will try not to. I will listen. I will listen to all the feedback. I always want to get better. There's always things that we can learn.

But I can already guarantee that the people that are in the arena are not the people that will criticize you because they know what it takes. They will be the people that will hold your hand or hold on and double check that you're okay. Okay, so just realize the people that are criticizing you are probably not where you want to go. So don't give it a wait, okay?

But I can already guarantee that the people that are in the arena are not the people that will criticize you because they know what it takes. They will be the people that will hold your hand or hold on and double check that you're okay. Okay, so just realize the people that are criticizing you are probably not where you want to go. So don't give it a wait, okay?

That was probably the hardest thing for me. Again, when you get into the arena, it is really, really hard. But I want you to think of names of people who inspire you. Are they on the sidelines or are they in the arena? Probably in the arena. So we're going to go in there with them. This weekend, it's not about just to change your weekend.

That was probably the hardest thing for me. Again, when you get into the arena, it is really, really hard. But I want you to think of names of people who inspire you. Are they on the sidelines or are they in the arena? Probably in the arena. So we're going to go in there with them. This weekend, it's not about just to change your weekend.

I don't give a damn about your weekend, but I appreciate that you're all here. We're here to put a line in the sand and to transform the second part of your life. That's why I'm here. Are we a good deal with that? Is that a good deal? Okay. And in order to transform the life, we are moving from the sidelines, from the fear, from the doubt.

I don't give a damn about your weekend, but I appreciate that you're all here. We're here to put a line in the sand and to transform the second part of your life. That's why I'm here. Are we a good deal with that? Is that a good deal? Okay. And in order to transform the life, we are moving from the sidelines, from the fear, from the doubt.

The sidelines is where everything is, the haters, the naysayers, the doubt, like everything that you can think of, the teacher that hurt you, the failures that you had, like everything is in the sidelines. But you're going to move from the sidelines into the arena because this is where the possibilities are. So we are getting into the arena this weekend. Is everybody a good deal with that?

The sidelines is where everything is, the haters, the naysayers, the doubt, like everything that you can think of, the teacher that hurt you, the failures that you had, like everything is in the sidelines. But you're going to move from the sidelines into the arena because this is where the possibilities are. So we are getting into the arena this weekend. Is everybody a good deal with that?