Iliza Shlesinger

I have an uncle who's like that. I think... I think my dad was like that for a while. He's alive, but like to an extent. And you talked about how a lot of people are like just slogging through life. And of course, these podcasts help them. But I do think a lot of people are miserable.

And so the only time that they feel heard or feel that they can say something that might contribute to this word cloud of the Internet is in the comment section. And so I don't even know if the intention is to hurt, but I think people feel assaulted by when people posit something. And so I try not to address it because especially as women, we tend to do a lot of padding of our arguments.

And so the only time that they feel heard or feel that they can say something that might contribute to this word cloud of the Internet is in the comment section. And so I don't even know if the intention is to hurt, but I think people feel assaulted by when people posit something. And so I try not to address it because especially as women, we tend to do a lot of padding of our arguments.

Like, I can't just be like, I love drinking ice cold water. I'd be like, and that's not to say hot water doesn't have its virtues because someone's going to be like, you don't like hot water.

Like, I can't just be like, I love drinking ice cold water. I'd be like, and that's not to say hot water doesn't have its virtues because someone's going to be like, you don't like hot water.

And it just and women have to deal with a little bit more. And the answer is don't read the comments. But that sort of bickering bogs you down. So I unequivocally will say I spend I choose to spend my money on a nanny. And that enables me to be a little less tired and accomplish the things I want.

And it just and women have to deal with a little bit more. And the answer is don't read the comments. But that sort of bickering bogs you down. So I unequivocally will say I spend I choose to spend my money on a nanny. And that enables me to be a little less tired and accomplish the things I want.

But it doesn't take away from just how gut wrenching it is to be away from my daughter and how much and son, how much time I want to spend with them. But that's the answer is that most people you think are doing it all have help. even if they don't admit it.

But it doesn't take away from just how gut wrenching it is to be away from my daughter and how much and son, how much time I want to spend with them. But that's the answer is that most people you think are doing it all have help. even if they don't admit it.

It's postpartum depression and nobody who doesn't have it, this is just for women because I don't know if men get this, but you're like, that's not, that's for people that have like chemical issues. And it was, I actually can't even speak to it because I don't really remember it. I just remember I felt really bad. And everybody feels bad for a different reason.

It's postpartum depression and nobody who doesn't have it, this is just for women because I don't know if men get this, but you're like, that's not, that's for people that have like chemical issues. And it was, I actually can't even speak to it because I don't really remember it. I just remember I felt really bad. And everybody feels bad for a different reason.

I can't say it's the healthiest thing to be one day out of having your baby and withstanding criticism for merely being Jewish in the world. I finally had a therapist that was like, hey, that's a lot. Like you shouldn't be answering and arguing with these people while you're like breastfeeding a baby.

I can't say it's the healthiest thing to be one day out of having your baby and withstanding criticism for merely being Jewish in the world. I finally had a therapist that was like, hey, that's a lot. Like you shouldn't be answering and arguing with these people while you're like breastfeeding a baby.

But because I'm the kind of person that's always taken on so many projects at once and I really believe like I can, like if I had the world on my shoulders, I wouldn't shrug it off. So that's just been a sort of a recalibration of like how tough I need to show up in the world. And the answer is I don't. You can like take breaks. But that postpartum depression really, It'll get you.

But because I'm the kind of person that's always taken on so many projects at once and I really believe like I can, like if I had the world on my shoulders, I wouldn't shrug it off. So that's just been a sort of a recalibration of like how tough I need to show up in the world. And the answer is I don't. You can like take breaks. But that postpartum depression really, It'll get you.

And however, I mean, I didn't want to take any drugs. It's not to say that if you take drugs, it's a bad thing. I just, I didn't want it. I didn't do it. And I got through it. You know, the farther away, you know, some people don't, but I did.

And however, I mean, I didn't want to take any drugs. It's not to say that if you take drugs, it's a bad thing. I just, I didn't want it. I didn't do it. And I got through it. You know, the farther away, you know, some people don't, but I did.

You feel bad in a way that I'm not familiar with, like in a depressed way. And I remember calling some of my friends that I know actually struggle with depression. And I was like, I just want to let you know. I always thought you were just kind of being a bitch. No, I was like, I just want to let you know, like, I feel so bad right now. And if this is how you feel all the time, I'm so sorry.

You feel bad in a way that I'm not familiar with, like in a depressed way. And I remember calling some of my friends that I know actually struggle with depression. And I was like, I just want to let you know. I always thought you were just kind of being a bitch. No, I was like, I just want to let you know, like, I feel so bad right now. And if this is how you feel all the time, I'm so sorry.

Because you can't like think your way out of it. Like it actually hurts your body. And... you can't always talk to everyone about it. And I have a very loving husband who knows what depression feels like. And so, but I'm like, yeah, this isn't normal. We're just having coffee and I'm just crying. And that's part of the hormonal shift of just, you had a baby, it's gone now. But I don't know.