Jackie Schimmel

I mean, it really is like case by case. And I think that people who are like going through like a very difficult time should know that literally everything is temporary. Like everything in the world is temporary. And for me, I was I like went through like a really weird time where I was just like my whole world was shook. Like everything I thought I knew was different.

I mean, it really is like case by case. And I think that people who are like going through like a very difficult time should know that literally everything is temporary. Like everything in the world is temporary. And for me, I was I like went through like a really weird time where I was just like my whole world was shook. Like everything I thought I knew was different.

Like everything like every security anchor was gone. And I was like free balling. And I was like, what the fuck? So in those situations, whether you're grieving or not grieving. like and your life is uprooted and you're in transitional periods, it's like you either sink or you swim. But for me, stagnant is not an option. So obviously, like I go through so many things.

Like everything like every security anchor was gone. And I was like free balling. And I was like, what the fuck? So in those situations, whether you're grieving or not grieving. like and your life is uprooted and you're in transitional periods, it's like you either sink or you swim. But for me, stagnant is not an option. So obviously, like I go through so many things.

Like everything like every security anchor was gone. And I was like free balling. And I was like, what the fuck? So in those situations, whether you're grieving or not grieving. like and your life is uprooted and you're in transitional periods, it's like you either sink or you swim. But for me, stagnant is not an option. So obviously, like I go through so many things.

It's like a random Tuesday where you're just like crying in a car and you're like, what the fuck? I've always used humor to deal with everything. It makes everything easier. And for people who don't understand, I totally get it. I've got friends that are like, you're so fucking weird. This is so dark. What is wrong with you? I understand that too. For me, I've always used it.

It's like a random Tuesday where you're just like crying in a car and you're like, what the fuck? I've always used humor to deal with everything. It makes everything easier. And for people who don't understand, I totally get it. I've got friends that are like, you're so fucking weird. This is so dark. What is wrong with you? I understand that too. For me, I've always used it.

It's like a random Tuesday where you're just like crying in a car and you're like, what the fuck? I've always used humor to deal with everything. It makes everything easier. And for people who don't understand, I totally get it. I've got friends that are like, you're so fucking weird. This is so dark. What is wrong with you? I understand that too. For me, I've always used it.

It makes everything easier to digest. It's not like it's not deflective coping. It's kind of like It is what it is. Right. You know what I mean? And I would say like you kind of have to make like an internal decision. Are you going to sink? Are you going to swim? For me, my whole agenda when my mom died, my throat's closing up. You're like, can I drink my juice? I'm sweating.

It makes everything easier to digest. It's not like it's not deflective coping. It's kind of like It is what it is. Right. You know what I mean? And I would say like you kind of have to make like an internal decision. Are you going to sink? Are you going to swim? For me, my whole agenda when my mom died, my throat's closing up. You're like, can I drink my juice? I'm sweating.

It makes everything easier to digest. It's not like it's not deflective coping. It's kind of like It is what it is. Right. You know what I mean? And I would say like you kind of have to make like an internal decision. Are you going to sink? Are you going to swim? For me, my whole agenda when my mom died, my throat's closing up. You're like, can I drink my juice? I'm sweating.

Do you have any vodka? When I like really got in the mindset where I was like, I don't want attention for, I don't want to walk into a room and get like the loose clutch on my shoulder of people being like, how are you doing? How's your dad? And are you okay? And your mom loved you. I'm like, no shit, bitch. I know my mom loved me. She hated you. Like, you know what I mean?

Do you have any vodka? When I like really got in the mindset where I was like, I don't want attention for, I don't want to walk into a room and get like the loose clutch on my shoulder of people being like, how are you doing? How's your dad? And are you okay? And your mom loved you. I'm like, no shit, bitch. I know my mom loved me. She hated you. Like, you know what I mean?

Do you have any vodka? When I like really got in the mindset where I was like, I don't want attention for, I don't want to walk into a room and get like the loose clutch on my shoulder of people being like, how are you doing? How's your dad? And are you okay? And your mom loved you. I'm like, no shit, bitch. I know my mom loved me. She hated you. Like, you know what I mean?

Like you start getting in that mode where it's like, Now people, your whole identity is like you're walking around with a black veil. Some people love that. We call them grief groupies. This is the problem. There are human beings who are finally getting attention and they fucking love it.

Like you start getting in that mode where it's like, Now people, your whole identity is like you're walking around with a black veil. Some people love that. We call them grief groupies. This is the problem. There are human beings who are finally getting attention and they fucking love it.

Like you start getting in that mode where it's like, Now people, your whole identity is like you're walking around with a black veil. Some people love that. We call them grief groupies. This is the problem. There are human beings who are finally getting attention and they fucking love it.

So you go through something terrible and then everyone feels bad for you and then everyone shows up with the casseroles. And you feel like you got a little gold validation sticker on your fucking forehead. That's where you get into a weird rhythm of being the victim. That's not the vibe because that has an expiration date.

So you go through something terrible and then everyone feels bad for you and then everyone shows up with the casseroles. And you feel like you got a little gold validation sticker on your fucking forehead. That's where you get into a weird rhythm of being the victim. That's not the vibe because that has an expiration date.

So you go through something terrible and then everyone feels bad for you and then everyone shows up with the casseroles. And you feel like you got a little gold validation sticker on your fucking forehead. That's where you get into a weird rhythm of being the victim. That's not the vibe because that has an expiration date.