Jacqui Wakefield

Eventually, he let her go.

She walked out and it was over.

He's not to blame for the actions my ex-boyfriend took.

Some people can't separate a video from real life.

We're in the US, in Las Vegas, back watching El Tamach's show.

I'm hoping I can catch him after to try and ask him some questions.

I'm struck by the number of fans doing more push-ups.

It's a common sight at El Tamach shows.

That clanking sound you can hear is their dog tags hitting the floor.

Most of the fans I spoke to had one.

Or you can buy the chain for $30 on Elta Match's website.

For $800, you can attend a workshop which includes a baptism or initiation where he puts the chain around your neck.

Saving men is a lucrative business.

Using social media analytical tools, we estimate Eltermatch makes up to $1.5 million a year from social media views alone.

On top of that are live chats on YouTube, where fans pay to promote their comments asking for advice, which we calculate last year earned him between $200,000 and $300,000.

Then there's the merch, the small group sessions, and events like this one, which cost between $50 and $100 a ticket.

Then we'll have questions from the audience.

Several men stand up.

There are stories of depression, loneliness, heartbreak.

Some seem quite lost.