Jameela Jamil

I don't want to just shit on the worst cockroaches of the manosphere and keep talking about them.

I want to get away from hyper-focusing on them and focus on the great men in society, the great dads, the great community members, the men who stand up for women, the men who are not so insecure that they just follow the orders of patriarchy.

I'm a fucking loser.

Like men who lead independently.

I believe that femininity is inherently more rebellious and individual than masculinity from what I see.

And I don't know if that's- That's really interesting.

I don't know if that's natural nurture, but I do know that men are more likely to fall in line.

We see more men in the army, more men in ICE.

more men going down to do the more dangerous jobs for a wealthy man up top.

I think that men tend to be more submissive, more likely to follow orders, and I think more likely to take cue from one another as to how to behave.

And I think some men feel afraid to step outside of the rules of patriarchy and embrace a bit of their feminine energy.

But all the men who have gone on to do the greatest and most rebellious things tend to be

embracing of their feminine side.

They tend to be able to be soft and they tend to be able to break the rules.

The true rule breakers to me are always a bit more on the feminine side.

Who are people

If they're, if they're men like Mark Ruffalo, Pedro Pascal, Zohra Mamdani.

Um, I would say Julian Assange is obviously someone who is a divisive political figure, but he was incredibly rebellious and, and someone who definitely embraced his feminine side without being a feminine person.

You don't have to be a feminine person to be able to adopt your softness and your emotions.

Um,