James Buckley

Because we were a bit more organised and actually went ahead and asked them to be in our bridal party for our December wedding.

Because it seemed like the right thing to do.

And now, nothing.

They have asked their friends and not included us.

Fucking the wedding, man.

It's a minefield.

Don't have a wedding and not expect multiple bombs to blow up in your face.

I, for a fact, wouldn't have asked them if it wasn't for the years of hype.

I felt like I had to.

So my question is, is this our fault for jumping the gun, even though we got engaged first?

Do I say something about how it's rude?

Or even better, can I politely uninvite them from our bridal party now?

Or do we just leave it and bitch about it behind their backs and move on?

Yeah, you do that.

Listen, this is coming from a guy, me, who has literally sat in my kitchen with one of my closest friends that I've known for years and years and years where he told me he was getting married.

and that he needed to talk to me about something.

And I said to him, don't ask me to be best man, by the way.

And you were going, that's mental that you said that.

I don't think he was.

In the end, he didn't.