Jan Canty
👤 PersonAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
That doesn't make sense. I just couldn't wrap my head around it. It was so unlike him.
I had so many more urgent, immediate things on my plate. I was worried about the IRS selling my house. If I had AIDS, I was going through AIDS testing. I had no time to wonder and think about what did he do? What did he say? Where did he go? That was a low priority. I was worried about my own safety.
I had so many more urgent, immediate things on my plate. I was worried about the IRS selling my house. If I had AIDS, I was going through AIDS testing. I had no time to wonder and think about what did he do? What did he say? Where did he go? That was a low priority. I was worried about my own safety.
I had so many more urgent, immediate things on my plate. I was worried about the IRS selling my house. If I had AIDS, I was going through AIDS testing. I had no time to wonder and think about what did he do? What did he say? Where did he go? That was a low priority. I was worried about my own safety.
I wasn't sleeping. I went into permanent menopause. I was physically sick. I lost a lot of my hair. I lost a lot of weight.
I wasn't sleeping. I went into permanent menopause. I was physically sick. I lost a lot of my hair. I lost a lot of weight.
I wasn't sleeping. I went into permanent menopause. I was physically sick. I lost a lot of my hair. I lost a lot of weight.
I was very defensive, irrationally angry. Like I would get angry at going into the grocery store that they didn't make loaves of bread for one person. I was looking for things to get angry about. Somebody opened the door for me, I'm like, what do they think, I'm weak? They got to open the door for me? I didn't maybe say anything to him, but internally I was very angry all the time.
I was very defensive, irrationally angry. Like I would get angry at going into the grocery store that they didn't make loaves of bread for one person. I was looking for things to get angry about. Somebody opened the door for me, I'm like, what do they think, I'm weak? They got to open the door for me? I didn't maybe say anything to him, but internally I was very angry all the time.
I was very defensive, irrationally angry. Like I would get angry at going into the grocery store that they didn't make loaves of bread for one person. I was looking for things to get angry about. Somebody opened the door for me, I'm like, what do they think, I'm weak? They got to open the door for me? I didn't maybe say anything to him, but internally I was very angry all the time.
I got handed a bill for $37,000. He owed for back rent. He'd taken out personal loans. He'd forged my name. I was so broke. I didn't know how I was going to get through the winter. I turned down the heat so much that I had frozen pipes. I started eating less. I conserved my trips to the store. I walked when I could. I sold off everything I could. His car parts, jewelry, furniture, books.
I got handed a bill for $37,000. He owed for back rent. He'd taken out personal loans. He'd forged my name. I was so broke. I didn't know how I was going to get through the winter. I turned down the heat so much that I had frozen pipes. I started eating less. I conserved my trips to the store. I walked when I could. I sold off everything I could. His car parts, jewelry, furniture, books.
I got handed a bill for $37,000. He owed for back rent. He'd taken out personal loans. He'd forged my name. I was so broke. I didn't know how I was going to get through the winter. I turned down the heat so much that I had frozen pipes. I started eating less. I conserved my trips to the store. I walked when I could. I sold off everything I could. His car parts, jewelry, furniture, books.
One night, I was by myself, as usual. And it was a peaceful night. I was sitting by the fire at my house. The room was empty. There wasn't a stick of furniture in there because I'd sold it all. And I remember thinking, somehow, some way, I'm going to make this a positive thing. I don't know how. I don't know when. But I do know why. Because if I don't, it'll crumble me.
One night, I was by myself, as usual. And it was a peaceful night. I was sitting by the fire at my house. The room was empty. There wasn't a stick of furniture in there because I'd sold it all. And I remember thinking, somehow, some way, I'm going to make this a positive thing. I don't know how. I don't know when. But I do know why. Because if I don't, it'll crumble me.
One night, I was by myself, as usual. And it was a peaceful night. I was sitting by the fire at my house. The room was empty. There wasn't a stick of furniture in there because I'd sold it all. And I remember thinking, somehow, some way, I'm going to make this a positive thing. I don't know how. I don't know when. But I do know why. Because if I don't, it'll crumble me.
I didn't want to speak with him. I didn't want anything to do with it. And I went to my attorney about it and he goes, you can't stop it. He's writing it based on public records. And in fact, there's a reason you should cooperate with them. And I go, what's that? And he said, you're going to learn things that you need to know. He's going to have the time. He's going to have the answers.
I didn't want to speak with him. I didn't want anything to do with it. And I went to my attorney about it and he goes, you can't stop it. He's writing it based on public records. And in fact, there's a reason you should cooperate with them. And I go, what's that? And he said, you're going to learn things that you need to know. He's going to have the time. He's going to have the answers.
I didn't want to speak with him. I didn't want anything to do with it. And I went to my attorney about it and he goes, you can't stop it. He's writing it based on public records. And in fact, there's a reason you should cooperate with them. And I go, what's that? And he said, you're going to learn things that you need to know. He's going to have the time. He's going to have the answers.
And if you don't get the answers, you'll always wonder. So I'd suggest you meet with him.