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For me, it was incredibly awkward and a little bit uncomfortable. She just shared that she's never felt this way about a woman before. She is not sure why she feels attracted to me. I know she went through a really hard time she went through a miscarriage and I was there for her emotionally. I wanted to support her. And so I'm not sure if she's, if she's confusing, um, vulnerability with intimacy.
For me, it was incredibly awkward and a little bit uncomfortable. She just shared that she's never felt this way about a woman before. She is not sure why she feels attracted to me. I know she went through a really hard time she went through a miscarriage and I was there for her emotionally. I wanted to support her. And so I'm not sure if she's, if she's confusing, um, vulnerability with intimacy.
For me, it was incredibly awkward and a little bit uncomfortable. She just shared that she's never felt this way about a woman before. She is not sure why she feels attracted to me. I know she went through a really hard time she went through a miscarriage and I was there for her emotionally. I wanted to support her. And so I'm not sure if she's, if she's confusing, um, vulnerability with intimacy.
Like, I'm not sure why she would get her wires crossed and think that there's something there.
Like, I'm not sure why she would get her wires crossed and think that there's something there.
Like, I'm not sure why she would get her wires crossed and think that there's something there.
Well, I guess I just in my head, I'm like, will it be awkward now? Because like she said, she was worried telling me that would wreck our friendship. And so in my head, I'm like, I don't know that we can remain friends or like that it can go back to normal because now it's like, I know this thing. even though there is no issue on my end.
Well, I guess I just in my head, I'm like, will it be awkward now? Because like she said, she was worried telling me that would wreck our friendship. And so in my head, I'm like, I don't know that we can remain friends or like that it can go back to normal because now it's like, I know this thing. even though there is no issue on my end.
Well, I guess I just in my head, I'm like, will it be awkward now? Because like she said, she was worried telling me that would wreck our friendship. And so in my head, I'm like, I don't know that we can remain friends or like that it can go back to normal because now it's like, I know this thing. even though there is no issue on my end.
Right, and then I feel like a jerk if it's like, oh, this fear that you just shared with me that this would end our friendship. Now I'm going to do that thing.
Right, and then I feel like a jerk if it's like, oh, this fear that you just shared with me that this would end our friendship. Now I'm going to do that thing.
Right, and then I feel like a jerk if it's like, oh, this fear that you just shared with me that this would end our friendship. Now I'm going to do that thing.
Right, and that's what I don't know is like what was her expectation in telling you that. I would assume you tell somebody that because you would hope they would reciprocate.
Right, and that's what I don't know is like what was her expectation in telling you that. I would assume you tell somebody that because you would hope they would reciprocate.
Right, and that's what I don't know is like what was her expectation in telling you that. I would assume you tell somebody that because you would hope they would reciprocate.
I mean, I feel like the right thing would be to end it. I guess I just struggle a lot with being a people pleaser and not wanting to hurt people.
I mean, I feel like the right thing would be to end it. I guess I just struggle a lot with being a people pleaser and not wanting to hurt people.
I mean, I feel like the right thing would be to end it. I guess I just struggle a lot with being a people pleaser and not wanting to hurt people.
Obviously to say like, I don't feel that way. This is inappropriate. You know, I'm married. This can't continue. And just to cut off communication. And there we go.
Obviously to say like, I don't feel that way. This is inappropriate. You know, I'm married. This can't continue. And just to cut off communication. And there we go.