Jared Freed

So I'm going to look bad if I end it because all my friends will be like, but he was so sweet and caring.

You know, sweet and caring, not every sweet and caring person is for you.

You know, that doesn't mean...

That you have to date them.

I agree with you.

And this is an email that a influencer on TikTok would make a lot of money from because you sent me an influencer earlier this week where this woman, she goes on TikTok and says, if you're a guy and it's raining out and you don't send me a car, you are done to me.

Yes.

It was insane.

But it was rage bait.

She was basically... And when I read this email, there's so many parts here that any influencer, especially a female one who talks about dating, could go on and be like, if you don't text me every morning...

you are done to me.

If you don't text me at night, you are done to me.

And it's like all of these things in a vacuum, you can talk like, you can say that about.

But to everyone, that's not important.

To this person, feeling loved when you're not together is,

is important and you're finding that out about yourself and you could feel loved and not get a good morning text from someone you could be dating someone who doesn't do any of these things but when you say hey I really like when I hear from you when you're gone and you hear from them randomly throughout the day and they don't say to you hey do you feel like you're do you need me to be obsessed with you like I'm sure that's a part of what makes you feel even more let down

Right.

And she's so concerned with ending it.

She won't even say, I don't feel good in this relationship.

But that's what she's saying.