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Jared Freid

πŸ‘€ Speaker
2715 total appearances

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Please See Below with Brynn Whitfield
Tight Fives and Red Flags: Dating in NYC With Jared Freid

It's exactly what it is. Yeah, dating is like finding the right one, picking the right one. Should I do this? Is it too soon? Do I like him? Are they a good person? Yeah, my favorite thing to do is be in a relationship. I can just be myself and I feel safe. And then I can be like... And talk about it. And work on it.

Please See Below with Brynn Whitfield
Tight Fives and Red Flags: Dating in NYC With Jared Freid

It's exactly what it is. Yeah, dating is like finding the right one, picking the right one. Should I do this? Is it too soon? Do I like him? Are they a good person? Yeah, my favorite thing to do is be in a relationship. I can just be myself and I feel safe. And then I can be like... And talk about it. And work on it.

Please See Below with Brynn Whitfield
Tight Fives and Red Flags: Dating in NYC With Jared Freid

And have our weekend set.

Please See Below with Brynn Whitfield
Tight Fives and Red Flags: Dating in NYC With Jared Freid

And have our weekend set.

Please See Below with Brynn Whitfield
Tight Fives and Red Flags: Dating in NYC With Jared Freid

Have the plan set. Have kinky sex. Be all weird. You know, you feel like, oh, I get to do this because I'm like... I don't have to... Yeah, movie. Like, oh, I know who I'm taking to the wedding. It's just like a nice feeling.

Please See Below with Brynn Whitfield
Tight Fives and Red Flags: Dating in NYC With Jared Freid

Have the plan set. Have kinky sex. Be all weird. You know, you feel like, oh, I get to do this because I'm like... I don't have to... Yeah, movie. Like, oh, I know who I'm taking to the wedding. It's just like a nice feeling.

Please See Below with Brynn Whitfield
Tight Fives and Red Flags: Dating in NYC With Jared Freid

Listen, relationships are sacrifice. You know, so... And if a lot of... You know, I think...

Please See Below with Brynn Whitfield
Tight Fives and Red Flags: Dating in NYC With Jared Freid

Listen, relationships are sacrifice. You know, so... And if a lot of... You know, I think...

Please See Below with Brynn Whitfield
Tight Fives and Red Flags: Dating in NYC With Jared Freid

for me it's like that's the end of like me having like i remember my dad like i was like i think i'm gonna end this relationship he's like well it's your last time to be selfish like you don't get to be selfish when you go and i do believe in that like and i think like the part you know look at every dad fuddy duddy dad dad's the the last to eat last to do shit so like you know that plays a part in it if your parent how long have your parents been married

Please See Below with Brynn Whitfield
Tight Fives and Red Flags: Dating in NYC With Jared Freid

for me it's like that's the end of like me having like i remember my dad like i was like i think i'm gonna end this relationship he's like well it's your last time to be selfish like you don't get to be selfish when you go and i do believe in that like and i think like the part you know look at every dad fuddy duddy dad dad's the the last to eat last to do shit so like you know that plays a part in it if your parent how long have your parents been married

Please See Below with Brynn Whitfield
Tight Fives and Red Flags: Dating in NYC With Jared Freid

Um, I'm 40, so 42 years, you know, so I'm going to be 40. They got married, I think, at 25. Oh, my gosh. Had me at 27, so... Has that, like, seeing them together and... Oh, no, that's... Is that, like... They're not like the couple that I'm like, oh, look at their marriage. Like, I'm like, look at the... That's hard. Like, they scream at each other. Yeah. They're ranting.

Please See Below with Brynn Whitfield
Tight Fives and Red Flags: Dating in NYC With Jared Freid

Um, I'm 40, so 42 years, you know, so I'm going to be 40. They got married, I think, at 25. Oh, my gosh. Had me at 27, so... Has that, like, seeing them together and... Oh, no, that's... Is that, like... They're not like the couple that I'm like, oh, look at their marriage. Like, I'm like, look at the... That's hard. Like, they scream at each other. Yeah. They're ranting.

Please See Below with Brynn Whitfield
Tight Fives and Red Flags: Dating in NYC With Jared Freid

They're, you know, it's, um... I look at their relationship and I look at my family. My family's very close and we like hanging out with each other. Again, I want my life to get better. I don't want to bring someone into that dynamic that takes me away from the fun I have with my family. So that's played a role in a lot of things too.

Please See Below with Brynn Whitfield
Tight Fives and Red Flags: Dating in NYC With Jared Freid

They're, you know, it's, um... I look at their relationship and I look at my family. My family's very close and we like hanging out with each other. Again, I want my life to get better. I don't want to bring someone into that dynamic that takes me away from the fun I have with my family. So that's played a role in a lot of things too.

Please See Below with Brynn Whitfield
Tight Fives and Red Flags: Dating in NYC With Jared Freid

Yeah. And so one of my girlfriends actually wanted me to ask you this because she has written in before you, but never got through. So I was like, I have an easy pass. And she was like, um, she's like knowing New York is so busy, like, and we're all so crazy and it's a city that never sleeps, blah, blah, blah. Is the excuse in New York is the excuse of I was too busy to like,

Please See Below with Brynn Whitfield
Tight Fives and Red Flags: Dating in NYC With Jared Freid

Yeah. And so one of my girlfriends actually wanted me to ask you this because she has written in before you, but never got through. So I was like, I have an easy pass. And she was like, um, she's like knowing New York is so busy, like, and we're all so crazy and it's a city that never sleeps, blah, blah, blah. Is the excuse in New York is the excuse of I was too busy to like,

Please See Below with Brynn Whitfield
Tight Fives and Red Flags: Dating in NYC With Jared Freid

immediately reply or maybe even like leave a little bit of lag time more than usual is there an excuse knowing that New Yorkers we are actually like busy and stressed we are doing shit non-stop running around like crazy people right I is there an exception to that for New Yorkers no I don't I think for anyone it's like you have to be especially as you get older

Please See Below with Brynn Whitfield
Tight Fives and Red Flags: Dating in NYC With Jared Freid

immediately reply or maybe even like leave a little bit of lag time more than usual is there an excuse knowing that New Yorkers we are actually like busy and stressed we are doing shit non-stop running around like crazy people right I is there an exception to that for New Yorkers no I don't I think for anyone it's like you have to be especially as you get older

Please See Below with Brynn Whitfield
Tight Fives and Red Flags: Dating in NYC With Jared Freid

I think you have to be okay with, you know where I live, you have my number. Come on over when you're ready. Make a plan that makes me happy. So everyone deserves redemption. Everyone can lose your number, just like you. I think that's how a lot of men act. That guy, Brock, from the dating app, You message him on Raya, really? Then you have fun banter. He wasn't like, what's been going on?

Please See Below with Brynn Whitfield
Tight Fives and Red Flags: Dating in NYC With Jared Freid

I think you have to be okay with, you know where I live, you have my number. Come on over when you're ready. Make a plan that makes me happy. So everyone deserves redemption. Everyone can lose your number, just like you. I think that's how a lot of men act. That guy, Brock, from the dating app, You message him on Raya, really? Then you have fun banter. He wasn't like, what's been going on?