Jared Freid

It's way more like, oh, my God, like, I'm stuck in this now. you know, with someone that might not be the person. And again, the only thing that could ruin my life as a woman, like I, like I, you know, financially, mentally, physically, you know, not physically, uh, but like financially, mentally, like if I got married right now, like my life is pretty good.

My life is in reruns, you know, at 39 and single, like I'm living groundhog's day. I wake up, I do my thing, I make money, I save money, I eat, I sleep, I fuck, you know? So, If I got married, that is a new season of the show. And I have to put all logic aside and believe in delusion that this person and I are the perfect couple that can last forever to go to that next season.

My life is in reruns, you know, at 39 and single, like I'm living groundhog's day. I wake up, I do my thing, I make money, I save money, I eat, I sleep, I fuck, you know? So, If I got married, that is a new season of the show. And I have to put all logic aside and believe in delusion that this person and I are the perfect couple that can last forever to go to that next season.

So, again, and who am I to say that? It's a mix. It's a feeling. And I get a knot in my stomach and I think fear of commitment is a normal thing.

So, again, and who am I to say that? It's a mix. It's a feeling. And I get a knot in my stomach and I think fear of commitment is a normal thing.

Yeah. So in your mind, does she have to be someone who's kind of Like, what, in the same head space, at the same place in her life, mentally, financially, something?

Yeah. So in your mind, does she have to be someone who's kind of Like, what, in the same head space, at the same place in her life, mentally, financially, something?

I wish I could give that answer. You know, it's just got to feel right. And I think a lot of men have this, like, you know, it's like from, like, those movies. Like, women give a lot of, like... you know, credibility, like the Prince movies, the Disney movies and how much they fuck you up.

I wish I could give that answer. You know, it's just got to feel right. And I think a lot of men have this, like, you know, it's like from, like, those movies. Like, women give a lot of, like... you know, credibility, like the Prince movies, the Disney movies and how much they fuck you up.

I think the coming of age tale fucks up men a little bit that this like person is just going to come out of nowhere and sweet and go, whoa, I got to make, that's got to be the person. I never felt anything like this. You know, that's kind of, that is a very male thing. And, you know, I think that's a nice romantic thing if you think of it in the right way. It's also like, who do you think you are?

I think the coming of age tale fucks up men a little bit that this like person is just going to come out of nowhere and sweet and go, whoa, I got to make, that's got to be the person. I never felt anything like this. You know, that's kind of, that is a very male thing. And, you know, I think that's a nice romantic thing if you think of it in the right way. It's also like, who do you think you are?

You know, like, what do you think? You're going to like, who could do that? Maybe you've got, you know, maybe you're looking at people in the wrong way. So I don't know. I have that issue in my own life.

You know, like, what do you think? You're going to like, who could do that? Maybe you've got, you know, maybe you're looking at people in the wrong way. So I don't know. I have that issue in my own life.

Have you ever wanted to get married?

Have you ever wanted to get married?

I do want to be married. I see that for myself.

I do want to be married. I see that for myself.

Have you been in a relationship where you're like, I think this could be? I think about everyone that way.

Have you been in a relationship where you're like, I think this could be? I think about everyone that way.

Yeah.