Jared Freid

I think that's like an interesting... Like, what would you do? You know, so... If someone was afraid of dating me, I would totally understand that. Like, I'm not for everyone... Just like anyone is not for anyone. Yeah, yeah, yeah. That's a scenario you would have to deal with because... Listen, we all have opinions and we all make judgements, and everyone's judging. No one cares, everyone judges.

I think that's like an interesting... Like, what would you do? You know, so... If someone was afraid of dating me, I would totally understand that. Like, I'm not for everyone... Just like anyone is not for anyone. Yeah, yeah, yeah. That's a scenario you would have to deal with because... Listen, we all have opinions and we all make judgements, and everyone's judging. No one cares, everyone judges.

So no one's holding onto it the rest of their life, but they go, oh, I got shown what I look like, I don't think I'm gonna go on day two.

So no one's holding onto it the rest of their life, but they go, oh, I got shown what I look like, I don't think I'm gonna go on day two.

Has someone ever contacted you after, even if you did keep it classy and very general? This person. So after you talked about it on the pod, then she talked?

Has someone ever contacted you after, even if you did keep it classy and very general? This person. So after you talked about it on the pod, then she talked?

So then I see them a month later, and they're like, so-and-so isn't ugly. And I'm like, what?

So then I see them a month later, and they're like, so-and-so isn't ugly. And I'm like, what?

I saw them in person. And they're like, if I showed you Brad Pitt, you wouldn't care. I go, well, you didn't. I was like, that's not how it went. And I would go, I don't look like him. It's a waste of time. Again, that's why dating podcasts are fun. I enjoy unpacking those things. I'm going to give how I feel on it. It's okay for someone to disagree. Yeah.

I saw them in person. And they're like, if I showed you Brad Pitt, you wouldn't care. I go, well, you didn't. I was like, that's not how it went. And I would go, I don't look like him. It's a waste of time. Again, that's why dating podcasts are fun. I enjoy unpacking those things. I'm going to give how I feel on it. It's okay for someone to disagree. Yeah.

So, yeah, people – I've gotten messages from people, and I've been at bars. I had another instance where someone was like, you talked about me. And I – again, here's the thing. Men who talk about their dating life – there's not a lot of straight men who talk about their dating life.

So, yeah, people – I've gotten messages from people, and I've been at bars. I had another instance where someone was like, you talked about me. And I – again, here's the thing. Men who talk about their dating life – there's not a lot of straight men who talk about their dating life.

On social media.

On social media.

It's not a big win for us.

It's not a big win for us.

So you have to be nuanced or else you sound like incel Joe Rogan asshole.

So you have to be nuanced or else you sound like incel Joe Rogan asshole.

And I don't – so that's why I think my podcast, You Up, if people find it, they love it. But it's hard to find people for us. I think we have the best dating podcast that exists. I don't think there's a place where you're going to get a more honest conversation. I don't think there's a place where you're going to have fun with dating in the way we have fun with it and laugh.

And I don't – so that's why I think my podcast, You Up, if people find it, they love it. But it's hard to find people for us. I think we have the best dating podcast that exists. I don't think there's a place where you're going to get a more honest conversation. I don't think there's a place where you're going to have fun with dating in the way we have fun with it and laugh.