Jared Freid

Well, people don't want to feel responsible for it. They don't want to be responsible for your feelings. They don't want to, like, have you get mad at them because this guy treated you wrong. They know that this guy might not be looking good. But I think it's okay to say to your friend, hey, what's their deal? I think they're cute. Give me the rundown. As opposed to, why haven't you?

Well, people don't want to feel responsible for it. They don't want to be responsible for your feelings. They don't want to, like, have you get mad at them because this guy treated you wrong. They know that this guy might not be looking good. But I think it's okay to say to your friend, hey, what's their deal? I think they're cute. Give me the rundown. As opposed to, why haven't you?

I think friends, everyone's living their own life.

I think friends, everyone's living their own life.

Yeah, listen, the reason ours is mostly women is women work on this. Women want to get better at dating. The women that listen to you up, they're successful, they're highly educated, successful women who are killing it in every part of their life, and then they're like, why is this thing giving me an issue?

Yeah, listen, the reason ours is mostly women is women work on this. Women want to get better at dating. The women that listen to you up, they're successful, they're highly educated, successful women who are killing it in every part of their life, and then they're like, why is this thing giving me an issue?

And I think my job is to not make it personal and kind of give an answer to that and make you a better buyer. And I think no one wants to waste their time, and I can tell right away if there's a time being wasted, and I can put myself... And when I give advice, like, what do you know, Jared? I know what would work on me.

And I think my job is to not make it personal and kind of give an answer to that and make you a better buyer. And I think no one wants to waste their time, and I can tell right away if there's a time being wasted, and I can put myself... And when I give advice, like, what do you know, Jared? I know what would work on me.

So me being normal guy that you're dating, five, eight and a half on my right leg, you'll be able to figure out... right away by the way they act based on what I tell you to do.

So me being normal guy that you're dating, five, eight and a half on my right leg, you'll be able to figure out... right away by the way they act based on what I tell you to do.

Yeah. Oh, that's so interesting. Okay, wait. So in real life or... Either way doesn't matter. But you're just not picking people up at the grocery store. Maybe Barry.

Yeah. Oh, that's so interesting. Okay, wait. So in real life or... Either way doesn't matter. But you're just not picking people up at the grocery store. Maybe Barry.

I think the advice sucks. I just think like... A lot of times when I talk about... We have a thing called the reveal. People ask, I want to have the talk with someone. The talk, to me, I can get out of the talk. If a woman came to me and was like, what's going on? Let's have the talk. I can go on and on and say nothing. I'm really good at saying nothing and sounding like we're still dating.

I think the advice sucks. I just think like... A lot of times when I talk about... We have a thing called the reveal. People ask, I want to have the talk with someone. The talk, to me, I can get out of the talk. If a woman came to me and was like, what's going on? Let's have the talk. I can go on and on and say nothing. I'm really good at saying nothing and sounding like we're still dating.

You mean you're saying a lot, but there's no substance to what you're saying.

You mean you're saying a lot, but there's no substance to what you're saying.

No substance, and that's what most men do. They want to feel comfortable. They don't want to feel uncomfortable. They don't have a real answer to what the next step is. They haven't thought that far ahead, which all you're doing is thinking that far ahead. So I always say do the reveal. Like speak in I terms. And like this is, again, everything I say is diet and exercise. You're like, of course.

No substance, and that's what most men do. They want to feel comfortable. They don't want to feel uncomfortable. They don't have a real answer to what the next step is. They haven't thought that far ahead, which all you're doing is thinking that far ahead. So I always say do the reveal. Like speak in I terms. And like this is, again, everything I say is diet and exercise. You're like, of course.

Like I'm not a genius. I'm state school, public school dummy. So I always say like if you're enjoying someone's, it takes vulnerability. That's hard to do. But you go, if you're dating someone three months and you say to them, hey, I've deleted the apps. If you met on the apps, hey, I've deleted the apps. I'm concentrating on what we have here. I really like you. Like, then shut the fuck up.

Like I'm not a genius. I'm state school, public school dummy. So I always say like if you're enjoying someone's, it takes vulnerability. That's hard to do. But you go, if you're dating someone three months and you say to them, hey, I've deleted the apps. If you met on the apps, hey, I've deleted the apps. I'm concentrating on what we have here. I really like you. Like, then shut the fuck up.