Jared Freid
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Because they can go to a house that has like the home that they want to be in. Yeah, yeah, yeah. They have the cute kids.
Because they can go to a house that has like the home that they want to be in. Yeah, yeah, yeah. They have the cute kids.
And the kids. Auntie so and so. Yeah, and they don't have any of the responsibility.
And the kids. Auntie so and so. Yeah, and they don't have any of the responsibility.
But then it's a way to like, it's like a morality play. They can always. do that where a date isn't worth it.
But then it's a way to like, it's like a morality play. They can always. do that where a date isn't worth it.
Isn't worth it, yeah, yeah. It makes them feel better because you feel like you're closer to what you want. I just have a thing now where I'm like, unless you are... Funnier than me, smarter than me, and have more money than me. Like, why would I โ it sounds bitchy, but, like, why would โ like, I need someone that's going to, like โ Right. I need you to have a cool group of friends.
Isn't worth it, yeah, yeah. It makes them feel better because you feel like you're closer to what you want. I just have a thing now where I'm like, unless you are... Funnier than me, smarter than me, and have more money than me. Like, why would I โ it sounds bitchy, but, like, why would โ like, I need someone that's going to, like โ Right. I need you to have a cool group of friends.
I need you to be having, like, an awesome life on your own so that, like, it adds to mine. Like, because I've worked really hard, and I've come this far, and I got through, like, going to weddings in my 20s. Why am I getting married? I've been engaged. I got through, like, the toughest part and the doubts, and I'm like, I'm only willing to actually sacrifice if I'm going to, like โ
I need you to be having, like, an awesome life on your own so that, like, it adds to mine. Like, because I've worked really hard, and I've come this far, and I got through, like, going to weddings in my 20s. Why am I getting married? I've been engaged. I got through, like, the toughest part and the doubts, and I'm like, I'm only willing to actually sacrifice if I'm going to, like โ
Get an upgrade, not, because otherwise, like, why?
Get an upgrade, not, because otherwise, like, why?
Listen, you're speaking my language. If I'm to, like, if you want to have empathy for straight men out there, like, this is kind of the conversation that they're hearing.
Listen, you're speaking my language. If I'm to, like, if you want to have empathy for straight men out there, like, this is kind of the conversation that they're hearing.
You know, so it's like, do I want to be in a relationship where I feel like a loser?
You know, so it's like, do I want to be in a relationship where I feel like a loser?
You know, and I think, like, with a lot of men, why do they end it? Why do they end it? Well, they don't feel that they could go to the next level of life and feel good about what would attract you to them.
You know, and I think, like, with a lot of men, why do they end it? Why do they end it? Well, they don't feel that they could go to the next level of life and feel good about what would attract you to them.
You know, they're not... So I think, like, so many relationships that I've been in, I'm like, well, I have a career. Like, how could I be responsible for someone else? Like, being in a marriage, sacrifice. Like, that being in a relationship is sacrifice, being responsible for someone else. So, like...