Jared Freid

I don't have... How do you trust the feeling, though, not know it's something, because I get that feeling, but then I'm so like, maybe it's my issues, maybe it's my trauma, maybe it's my whatever, like, I need to trust my gut more, but I think it's hard to, because I'm always like double, I'm like questioning... Because here's the thing.

It takes a lot of confidence to move into the next phase of life. What is that? I keep doing the same thing over and over again. It's like the definition of stupidity, right?

It takes a lot of confidence to move into the next phase of life. What is that? I keep doing the same thing over and over again. It's like the definition of stupidity, right?

Insanity. And so I'm like, if, or in like AA meetings, I've never been AA, but don't they say like, your best thinking got you here? You know, and they're like, well, I think this is, they're like, your best thinking got you here.

Insanity. And so I'm like, if, or in like AA meetings, I've never been AA, but don't they say like, your best thinking got you here? You know, and they're like, well, I think this is, they're like, your best thinking got you here.

Well, I have that feeling with like ending things. I'm like, you had a reason at the time.

Well, I have that feeling with like ending things. I'm like, you had a reason at the time.

Right.

Right.

And we have a lot of people that write in about their exes reaching back out. If you've been reached out to on Facebook, that is a guy who's married. Red flag.

And we have a lot of people that write in about their exes reaching back out. If you've been reached out to on Facebook, that is a guy who's married. Red flag.

Facebook's like a cheater's app.

Facebook's like a cheater's app.

Oh, Facebook is the one because it's like you're attached to someone.

Oh, Facebook is the one because it's like you're attached to someone.

And the fantasy and the memory that probably wasn't even true, and then you start romanticizing someone and what it could have been and should have been.

And the fantasy and the memory that probably wasn't even true, and then you start romanticizing someone and what it could have been and should have been.

Imagine if you could look at your yearbook and then call the person that you're looking at in your yearbook. That's what it is. Yeah, it's so strange.

Imagine if you could look at your yearbook and then call the person that you're looking at in your yearbook. That's what it is. Yeah, it's so strange.

it's weird but it's like that's how you know you hear about that's where a lot of the cheating you're right you know I think a lot most men you know have men generally have the one that got away not a lot of women yeah because women work on you know a bad relationship until it's absolutely fucking dead yeah and men move on before the next step thinking I mean I do this all the time like I I mean in the special 37th single I talk about it in there do you have one that got away