Jason Feifer
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And we know that there is so much conflict when it connects love and money in the statistics out there. are wildly alarming about what happens when we don't discuss money in our relationships.
And so knowing those statistics, like 50% of couples don't feel comfortable even having conversations around money, or those that do have conversations, three-quarters of them say that it creates material tension in the relationship. That gives us an indicator that we really need to step into it at some capacity.
And so knowing those statistics, like 50% of couples don't feel comfortable even having conversations around money, or those that do have conversations, three-quarters of them say that it creates material tension in the relationship. That gives us an indicator that we really need to step into it at some capacity.
And so knowing those statistics, like 50% of couples don't feel comfortable even having conversations around money, or those that do have conversations, three-quarters of them say that it creates material tension in the relationship. That gives us an indicator that we really need to step into it at some capacity.
And so what I always say is like, when we think about money, it's just like, we initially are like, what are you making? What's your net worth? What's your debt? And it's like, whoa, slow down. Yeah.
And so what I always say is like, when we think about money, it's just like, we initially are like, what are you making? What's your net worth? What's your debt? And it's like, whoa, slow down. Yeah.
And so what I always say is like, when we think about money, it's just like, we initially are like, what are you making? What's your net worth? What's your debt? And it's like, whoa, slow down. Yeah.
Yeah. And it's like, well, we can have fun. Like think about, you know, when you go out to drinks with your friends or a bite to eat, like the fun conversations you have about whatever it is, maybe it's gossip, maybe it's current news or what's happening. Like you could do that with money.
Yeah. And it's like, well, we can have fun. Like think about, you know, when you go out to drinks with your friends or a bite to eat, like the fun conversations you have about whatever it is, maybe it's gossip, maybe it's current news or what's happening. Like you could do that with money.
Yeah. And it's like, well, we can have fun. Like think about, you know, when you go out to drinks with your friends or a bite to eat, like the fun conversations you have about whatever it is, maybe it's gossip, maybe it's current news or what's happening. Like you could do that with money.
And the classic example I give someone is like, you know, if you earn or win a certain dollar amount, you get paid that amount today, like $50,000 or $500,000 or $100,000. You've got to spend every dollar. How exactly are you spending it? And just in that answer, I can learn how you prioritize money, what your relationship is with money, et cetera.
And the classic example I give someone is like, you know, if you earn or win a certain dollar amount, you get paid that amount today, like $50,000 or $500,000 or $100,000. You've got to spend every dollar. How exactly are you spending it? And just in that answer, I can learn how you prioritize money, what your relationship is with money, et cetera.
And the classic example I give someone is like, you know, if you earn or win a certain dollar amount, you get paid that amount today, like $50,000 or $500,000 or $100,000. You've got to spend every dollar. How exactly are you spending it? And just in that answer, I can learn how you prioritize money, what your relationship is with money, et cetera.
So I say introduce fun ways to these conversations because it's hard to step in to the ones that aren't so fun, but we know we have to.
So I say introduce fun ways to these conversations because it's hard to step in to the ones that aren't so fun, but we know we have to.
So I say introduce fun ways to these conversations because it's hard to step in to the ones that aren't so fun, but we know we have to.
Well, first and foremost, I think that everybody, everybody has some form of a financial skeleton in their closet. At some capacity, there's some type of skeleton that needs to be worked on. Literally from billionaires down, we all have something. So we're all there together. But the biggest thing is identifying them. And I think we live in a system where we don't experience massive pain that it
Well, first and foremost, I think that everybody, everybody has some form of a financial skeleton in their closet. At some capacity, there's some type of skeleton that needs to be worked on. Literally from billionaires down, we all have something. So we're all there together. But the biggest thing is identifying them. And I think we live in a system where we don't experience massive pain that it
Well, first and foremost, I think that everybody, everybody has some form of a financial skeleton in their closet. At some capacity, there's some type of skeleton that needs to be worked on. Literally from billionaires down, we all have something. So we're all there together. But the biggest thing is identifying them. And I think we live in a system where we don't experience massive pain that it
causes us to actually have to fix things immediately. Another example I always give is like when you have a cavity or you have a super big pain point, you have to immediately fix it. And with finance, it's not set up. It's a slow drip. It's a slow burn. And some people say like, well, what are financial red flags that you look for in relationships? I'm like,