Jason Tartick
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Now we talk about the love aspect. That group, that small group that feels like they can talk about money and it leads attention, over half of them when surveyed said that it had led to massively decreased intimacy. And money reasons are the number two reason behind divorce. So the thing is, is that we continue to skirt. We continue to avoid the conversation. We continue to step around it.
But at some point, you're stepping into it. And if you're cohabitating or you're married, you've officially stepped into it. And we talk about post-numps and pre-numps a lot. And at the end of the day, everyone out there has a pre-nump. It's your state laws.
But at some point, you're stepping into it. And if you're cohabitating or you're married, you've officially stepped into it. And we talk about post-numps and pre-numps a lot. And at the end of the day, everyone out there has a pre-nump. It's your state laws.
But at some point, you're stepping into it. And if you're cohabitating or you're married, you've officially stepped into it. And we talk about post-numps and pre-numps a lot. And at the end of the day, everyone out there has a pre-nump. It's your state laws.
The idea is do you want to protect yourself by customizing those state laws or do you want to keep those based on what was established years and years ago?
The idea is do you want to protect yourself by customizing those state laws or do you want to keep those based on what was established years and years ago?
The idea is do you want to protect yourself by customizing those state laws or do you want to keep those based on what was established years and years ago?
My biggest takeaway with all of it is that we need to get comfortable with talking about what we make, what we spend, what our net worth is, where we have credit, where we want to spend, where we can pull back in our priorities, because it's all about compromise. It's all about compromise. The things you would like to spend on, Heather, are things I might think are the dumbest thing in the world.
My biggest takeaway with all of it is that we need to get comfortable with talking about what we make, what we spend, what our net worth is, where we have credit, where we want to spend, where we can pull back in our priorities, because it's all about compromise. It's all about compromise. The things you would like to spend on, Heather, are things I might think are the dumbest thing in the world.
My biggest takeaway with all of it is that we need to get comfortable with talking about what we make, what we spend, what our net worth is, where we have credit, where we want to spend, where we can pull back in our priorities, because it's all about compromise. It's all about compromise. The things you would like to spend on, Heather, are things I might think are the dumbest thing in the world.
And the things I might like to spend on, you might think are a joke. But when you have these conversations, you can say in the middle, like, hey, I understand. It's your friend. That makes you happy. So I'm not going to shame or weaponize it and vice versa. And I think that's what we need to do. Have that conversations. And then when someone gives you their vulnerability, don't you
And the things I might like to spend on, you might think are a joke. But when you have these conversations, you can say in the middle, like, hey, I understand. It's your friend. That makes you happy. So I'm not going to shame or weaponize it and vice versa. And I think that's what we need to do. Have that conversations. And then when someone gives you their vulnerability, don't you
And the things I might like to spend on, you might think are a joke. But when you have these conversations, you can say in the middle, like, hey, I understand. It's your friend. That makes you happy. So I'm not going to shame or weaponize it and vice versa. And I think that's what we need to do. Have that conversations. And then when someone gives you their vulnerability, don't you
don't you dare use that vulnerability as a weapon or a tool to shame them because it's so hard to open up in the first place.
don't you dare use that vulnerability as a weapon or a tool to shame them because it's so hard to open up in the first place.
don't you dare use that vulnerability as a weapon or a tool to shame them because it's so hard to open up in the first place.
Prenumps are not at all based on romance. There's no connection to romance in a prenup. When you get married, you're doing a bunch of things. And based on your religion and your beliefs and your character, you're committing to a lot of things. But legally, you're committing to a partnership. And it's also a binding partnership that ties you in as life partners, but also
Prenumps are not at all based on romance. There's no connection to romance in a prenup. When you get married, you're doing a bunch of things. And based on your religion and your beliefs and your character, you're committing to a lot of things. But legally, you're committing to a partnership. And it's also a binding partnership that ties you in as life partners, but also
Prenumps are not at all based on romance. There's no connection to romance in a prenup. When you get married, you're doing a bunch of things. And based on your religion and your beliefs and your character, you're committing to a lot of things. But legally, you're committing to a partnership. And it's also a binding partnership that ties you in as life partners, but also
business partners to a certain extent. And so the conversation, first of all, needs to start with, think about anything in life we know that historically has shown us evidence of things we need to be aware of. A very, very simple example. I don't like to judge anybody, but let's call vaping.