Jason

And I think especially like we went through a questionnaire talking together about it. But then when we got the first draft back from my lawyer, that's when she's really not been feeling good about it. And I understand the concern. So, I mean, she feels like. I wouldn't be fully entering the marriage in the same way that she is.

Cause it feels like I'm holding assets, uh, like separately off to the side. Um, and I'm sensitive to that. And especially in some of the contexts of her, um, former relationships. And so I'm just looking for maybe more clarity and, uh, like what you guys would recommend.

Cause it feels like I'm holding assets, uh, like separately off to the side. Um, and I'm sensitive to that. And especially in some of the contexts of her, um, former relationships. And so I'm just looking for maybe more clarity and, uh, like what you guys would recommend.

Cause it feels like I'm holding assets, uh, like separately off to the side. Um, and I'm sensitive to that. And especially in some of the contexts of her, um, former relationships. And so I'm just looking for maybe more clarity and, uh, like what you guys would recommend.

Yeah. Yes. And I think especially like, you know, her kids as well, too. And it's something that I want to address. And I think we could address like in a will or like some other document or method after we get married. And it's something that I want to do. Like, I absolutely would want her and her kids to be taken care of, too, if something, you know, didn't happen to us.

Yeah. Yes. And I think especially like, you know, her kids as well, too. And it's something that I want to address. And I think we could address like in a will or like some other document or method after we get married. And it's something that I want to do. Like, I absolutely would want her and her kids to be taken care of, too, if something, you know, didn't happen to us.

Yeah. Yes. And I think especially like, you know, her kids as well, too. And it's something that I want to address. And I think we could address like in a will or like some other document or method after we get married. And it's something that I want to do. Like, I absolutely would want her and her kids to be taken care of, too, if something, you know, didn't happen to us.

I think it also it feels very condescending to her that like the either she and I don't see it being a problem for her at all. Like, my goal in this, and I think that's what your advice is, is that in our case, that I know is rare, it would help protect our marriage. And that's what I want to do.

I think it also it feels very condescending to her that like the either she and I don't see it being a problem for her at all. Like, my goal in this, and I think that's what your advice is, is that in our case, that I know is rare, it would help protect our marriage. And that's what I want to do.

I think it also it feels very condescending to her that like the either she and I don't see it being a problem for her at all. Like, my goal in this, and I think that's what your advice is, is that in our case, that I know is rare, it would help protect our marriage. And that's what I want to do.

But I totally understand that she feels it's condescending, like, to her and her family and her friends that they might be a problem and that we would need this to, like, protect against them.

But I totally understand that she feels it's condescending, like, to her and her family and her friends that they might be a problem and that we would need this to, like, protect against them.

But I totally understand that she feels it's condescending, like, to her and her family and her friends that they might be a problem and that we would need this to, like, protect against them.

So there's nothing currently built in like that. Other than that, it's pretty basic. So everything we enter into the marriage with is separate property, except she has a small amount of debt, and she's been awesome about eliminating debt, especially the situation she came from. I don't want her to carry it all. We would just pay it off.

So there's nothing currently built in like that. Other than that, it's pretty basic. So everything we enter into the marriage with is separate property, except she has a small amount of debt, and she's been awesome about eliminating debt, especially the situation she came from. I don't want her to carry it all. We would just pay it off.

So there's nothing currently built in like that. Other than that, it's pretty basic. So everything we enter into the marriage with is separate property, except she has a small amount of debt, and she's been awesome about eliminating debt, especially the situation she came from. I don't want her to carry it all. We would just pay it off.

um and then everything after the date of the marriage is shared so income that i make or she made we just share it um our plan is that she would stop working she'd be able to be home with all these kids does that include interest on the 12 million like as that grows or does any growth on that 12 million remain yours yeah so at least as it's currently structured the growth in that would remain mine i think we have talked about it's not in the document but like if i were to stop working to also help

um and then everything after the date of the marriage is shared so income that i make or she made we just share it um our plan is that she would stop working she'd be able to be home with all these kids does that include interest on the 12 million like as that grows or does any growth on that 12 million remain yours yeah so at least as it's currently structured the growth in that would remain mine i think we have talked about it's not in the document but like if i were to stop working to also help

um and then everything after the date of the marriage is shared so income that i make or she made we just share it um our plan is that she would stop working she'd be able to be home with all these kids does that include interest on the 12 million like as that grows or does any growth on that 12 million remain yours yeah so at least as it's currently structured the growth in that would remain mine i think we have talked about it's not in the document but like if i were to stop working to also help

With the kids, which would be an option, like the income that we drew from that would be considered our income.